Cold approaches in High School?

[TheEnergizer]

not that its a big deal... but i wouldnt open with that hair dye thing, maybe use it sometime later in the interaction but not right off the bat. that actually seems kinda creepy

something like a nonpersonal question or opinion or a simple hey hows it going would work just fine. usually though you have something better to work with, like a current event or something in the surrounding environment that sticks out or that you can make a joke out of. or some other opportunity thing if there is one. if not then refer to what i said before

 

[S.Y.L]

That seems creepy? lmao wow.

 

[Analyzeit]

Cold approach in highschool....

Do you really have to?

Cold approaching is creepy, to be honest with you

But it all depends on the girl. I'm sure you all know those loud, outgoing types yeah? cold approach them, or those slutty ones go ahead. But we all really don't want those loud and/or slutty chicks unless we just feel like banging anything. You really should not cold approach them and the shyer they are the less you should cold approach them.

And really if you are going to even talk to them keep it playful and very casual, i like to start when i approach with like a joke. Say they do something stupid walk into a door way or something. I'll be like "oh watch out" and stuff like that until i can get a good conversation going.

The other guys are all right keep it indirect and just plain casual

 

[thefonz]

I never get one-itis anymore, thank god. I did awful before I saw this site, on an HB5. I don't understand why I did. God damnit.


But what about an approach like, Hey, how do you get so tanned or like, hey, do you die your hair, it looks really nice?

And since they are young they will fall for silly stuff llike that. Think it would work?

Sure it could work...but it's just an openor. Openors are SOO overrated IMO. There is a ton of **** that happens between the openor and getting laid (if thats your goal I assume?). It depends on the girl too, is she a religious girl in which case comfort game and avoiding negs and teasing is the best way. Is she a party girl in which case you need to use attraction game and social proofing yourself.

Fine tune your game and you'll be in good shape. I've been in the community a long time and have seen guys who cold approach like crazy, and are uncalibrated and get no results.

 

[S.Y.L]

Yeah, I really don't have my mind set on 1 girl at all, mabye 15 lol

 

[thefonz]

I'd recommend just networking with a bunch of parties at your school and going to them with the idea of making tons of friends and hanging out a lot. You're lucky in that you're young enough that you can still become a natural. Don't even think about PUA **** unless a girl is showing a ton of interest in you already. You've got the rest of your life to cold approach man, and honestly the skills and adjustments you gain from this time in your life outweigh any pick up skills by a mile.