How do you guys approach girls (18-25 yo) in grocery stores? What is your opener? How long would you talk before you ask for the #? Would you kino?
To make it a bit more concrete, let's say the girl is alone picking some fruits…
It doesn't matter where she is
inside store, just make sure you catch her while she is around as
less people as possible {if you care about that kind of stuff).
This is what I do...
1. Identify an attractive woman.
2. Follow her from a safe distance (a lion stalking prey).
3. Wait for the right time to approach.
4. Move in on the approach.
5. Appear to her unsuspectingly, and pay her a compliment. Or, if you are walking towards her and she sees you, pay her a compliment as you are approaching her.
6. "Dang, you cute." <-----this is my go-to line.
Or some variation of it.
I sometimes say "Now ain't you a fine one..."
7. Usually, the woman will smile and say "Thank you".
8. Then I ask, "Are you single?
Her answer will tell me everything I need to know.
If she ain't single, she is off limits (although, depending on how fine she is, this may be the only exception to women who are already committed). However, if she is married, she is completely OFF LIMITS.
9. Once she identifies as single, I ask her name (because if she ain't single, her name is irrelevant).
10. Once she provides her name, I ask for her number, or I give her mines....and this number request is followed by a date request.
However, my past few cold approaches I've found out that instead of getting the woman's number, I give her mines.
So now, I am more likely than not to give the woman my number.
Why?
Because I've found out that it feels better to give a woman
my number (and if she doesn't call, end of story), than for her to give me her number and when I reach out to her, to have to deal with her dismissive and vague efforts, should she not be interested.
11. Once/If she reaches out to me after I gave her my number, then within 3-5 minutes of talking to her over the phone or within 3-5 text messages....
12. MODE ONE.
It all may seem like a lot, but it isn't.
The entire process of number exchanges between 15-40 seconds.
You don't have to stand there tap dancing for 5-15 minutes, for a woman who knows within the first 10 seconds whether or not she is interested in you.