Cold approach, hot coffee

[ksoileau]

I stopped off at Starbucks for a quick sandwich and noticed this HB7 studying. She had an ok bod but really cute face and big pretty eyes. I tried to get eye contact but didn’t really. Finally, after finishing my sandwich:

KS: Hey, what are you studying there?
HB: (smiles) blah blah nutrition blah lipids
<I got up and took a nearby chair so I could hear her better>
KS: Really, where are you studying that?
HB: At <she names local uni>
KS: How did you get interested in nutrition?
HB: Well, I started in biology blah blah
<I noticed her accent, which was unusual for Texas>
KS: Hey, what part of the country are you from?
HB: Guess…I’ll give you a hint, it’s north…
KS: Illinois?
HB: No, but close.
KS: Hmmm, that’s as close as I can get.
HB: My Mom’s from Indiana and my father’s from Ohio, that’s where I’m from.
KS: Cool.
HB: So are you a linguistics person, or…
KS: Well, I know a little Russian, a little German.
<some fluff talk>
HB: Besides, I’m dyslexic. <She goes into a description of what dyslexia is, etc.>
<At this point she’s been engaging in the convo, I’m getting positive body language like hair twirling, etc. I decided to end it early and go for the number close>
KS: Well Jennifer, it’s been nice talking to you, we should continue this another time.
HB: Um, yeah, for sure.
<She stands up. I reach into my pocket to get my cell, she gets this look on her face like I’m about to pull out a turd lol.>
KS: Let me get your phone number.
HB: Uhhhhhh, that’s OK. We’ll meet again sometime. <She has this disgusted look on her face as she’s leaving Starbucks>
KS: OK, Jennifer, have a good time.

This was a little baffling, but I felt great that I did a cold approach and totally kept my nerve even though it didn’t get me a number.

 

[JackPrescott]

I stopped off at Starbucks for a quick sandwich and noticed this HB7 studying. She had an ok bod but really cute face and big pretty eyes. I tried to get eye contact but didn’t really. Finally, after finishing my sandwich:

KS: Hey, what are you studying there?
HB: (smiles) blah blah nutrition blah lipids
<I got up and took a nearby chair so I could hear her better>
KS: Really, where are you studying that?
HB: At <she names local uni>
KS: How did you get interested in nutrition?
HB: Well, I started in biology blah blah
<I noticed her accent, which was unusual for Texas>
KS: Hey, what part of the country are you from?
HB: Guess…I’ll give you a hint, it’s north…
KS: Illinois?
HB: No, but close.
KS: Hmmm, that’s as close as I can get.
HB: My Mom’s from Indiana and my father’s from Ohio, that’s where I’m from.
KS: Cool.
HB: So are you a linguistics person, or…
KS: Well, I know a little Russian, a little German.
<some fluff talk>
HB: Besides, I’m dyslexic. <She goes into a description of what dyslexia is, etc.>
<At this point she’s been engaging in the convo, I’m getting positive body language like hair twirling, etc. I decided to end it early and go for the number close>
KS: Well Jennifer, it’s been nice talking to you, we should continue this another time.
HB: Um, yeah, for sure.
<She stands up. I reach into my pocket to get my cell, she gets this look on her face like I’m about to pull out a turd lol.>
KS: Let me get your phone number.
HB: Uhhhhhh, that’s OK. We’ll meet again sometime. <She has this disgusted look on her face as she’s leaving Starbucks>
KS: OK, Jennifer, have a good time.

This was a little baffling, but I felt great that I did a cold approach and totally kept my nerve even though it didn’t get me a number.

This story is HILARIOUS. It proves a lot of theories wrong here at So Suave. It doesnt matter how much "Game you got" how rich or poor you are, or how tight your abs are. Some women are just not interested sexually. Period. ****y funny, cold approaches, all that other sh*it wont work on them.

But I do give you credit for trying. Enough cold approaches like this, and if your Ego can handle the constant looks of "Pulling out a turd" and eventually one or two will exchange cell numbers. Me? She and I would have sat ignoring each other for the duration of my stay at Starbucks.

 

[ksoileau]

This story is HILARIOUS. It proves a lot of theories wrong here at So Suave. It doesnt matter how much "Game you got" how rich or poor you are, or how tight your abs are. Some women are just not interested sexually. Period. ****y funny, cold approaches, all that other sh*it wont work on them.

But I do give you credit for trying. Enough cold approaches like this, and if your Ego can handle the constant looks of "Pulling out a turd" and eventually one or two will exchange cell numbers. Me? She and I would have sat ignoring each other for the duration of my stay at Starbucks.

Thanks Jack, but that wasn't the point of the post. The point of cold approaches is to increase one's courage and decrease one's ego-sensitivity. Sure, I felt a twinge of embarrassment, but only 1% of what I would have felt a year ago. I mainly felt elated that I exercised my courage and remained calm in the face of an unknown risk. If a cold approach yields a phone number, that's just icing on the cake.

 

[JackPrescott]

Thanks Jack, but that wasn't the point of the post. The point of cold approaches is to increase one's courage and decrease one's ego-sensitivity. Sure, I felt a twinge of embarrassment, but only 1% of what I would have felt a year ago. I mainly felt elated that I exercised my courage and remained calm in the face of an unknown risk. If a cold approach yields a phone number, that's just icing on the cake.

I have no Ego Sensitivity. I think of myself as a Tiger, hiding in the longgrass on the banks of the Euphrates, watching the tired herd drink water in the heat, and finding a single female antelope, who twisted her ankle on the praire, and is limping slightly, before I move, and springload the claws.

 

[qstorm501]

That was pretty decent.. Congrats for having the courage to approach...I would have NEVER had the guts to approach a total stranger who hasnt given me no IOI whatsoever a year ago ..Remember this is a numbers game..you might get shot down 3 times in a row and then BOOM the 4th approach you end up #closing and eventually f-closing what helps to motivate me is the simple premise ..THE MORE APPROACHES I MAKE THE MORE A*S I WILL GET. Each time i get shot down is just one step closer to # and f-closing


GOOD LUCK!!