"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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coincidence, I think so

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So I went out last night. Around 8 o'clock I texted this girl that I got her number from myspace. lol. I had texted her a couple of times in the past month and no response. I told her in the text that I was going out and if she was she should give me a jingle. No response. I went about my business and about 1 o'clock in the morning me and my friends go to this bar. I walk in and scope the place out to see what is in there. I shat you not this girl I texted earlier is there. It is a small town like 80,000 and it seems like you always see the same people. anyway. Me and my friends are standing near the door and this guy that some how knows me starts talking to me. I'm playing it off that I don't see this girl is there. She was sitting with a guy but it didn't look like anything serious. So me and my friends are talking to this guy and about a minute later she gets up and talks to someone right behind me for like ten seconds. Then she turns and grabs my hips, but my back is turned to her. Then she goes and sits down. I never did talk to her I guess at the time I was trying to display a higher sense of power. I guess I should have talked to her, but hind site is 20/20. My question is should I contact her and tell her I saw her or just let it go and see if she contacts me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I hate to be blunt but as soon as she touched you like that, you should have been on her like a fly on sh!t. That was the chance, but don't worry get the next one.
 
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