Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
im not farmer
I said grind them, not grow them. Get a cheap grinder and buy whole bean coffee.
Drinking the wrong coffee. Here's what you need. That's your hookup.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Very noble.. Just don't try my coffee recommendation or you'll come back to the Java dark side.
for caffeinecels lol.
The same thing happens to me time to time. What I usually do is I have a "detox" week, and I don't drink anything with caffeine for a week.
haha i always try that but usually fail after 5 hours
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most teas, unless decaffeinated, have actually more caffeine that regular coffee.
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Search for "Turkish" coffee packets. This is the best alternative for espresso for my taste and my preferred. Two tea spoons of it and youre ready to go
Just add some shots of expresso to a mug of coffee. Personally less is more. I take a break from full coffee.every third day to avoid getting used to it. If I were you just drink decaf for a few weeks and start.over again. Should reset by then.
nah man i take 8 coffee pills a day and barely feel good, just cant sleep at night
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I fail every day. I would like to cut down to two coffees per day, but then I get headaches xD