Coffee date.

[Comatozed]

I have a coffee date with an 18yo from tinder arranged for tmr.

This will be my first coffee date and even now I'm not sure why I suggested coffee as opposed to drinks . I guess I thought it would be more likely to be accepted and cos she's 18 and looks all sweet and innocent I thought why not.

Now.. it gets a bit tricky as she leaves the city to start school this Saturday...so the usual purpose of a coffee date (to see if you wanna see them again for an actual date) is undermined.

With this is in mind, in your opinion does little miss sweet and innocent want the d tmr?

I am considering either A) Doing coffee and trying to escalate back to mine or B) Switching it to alcohol...although she probably can't stay at mine or go home drunk on a Wednesday night as her parents won't approve of either.

Any of you guys successfully turned coffee into sex? I just can't see it happening in this case, but like I said, we are both aware this will likely be the only meeting in a while.

The more I think about it the more I think she's DTF...am I being fooled by her appearance.

How would you play it? The coffee shop we are going to does alcohol as well, for what it's worth.

 

[SmooveMooves]

These are things that you, and especially we here at the double S cannot predict.

You have to wait until the date and go with what feels right.

-Are you guys enjoying yourselves?

'Are you seeing iois?

-Does she seem generally receptive or horny?

Some of you guys need to work on realizing social cues and body language rather than trying to plan everything out like a movie.

One mistake that I can tell you're making is viewing her as innocent.

Heed these words:

All chicks are freaky, sometimes you may have to dig a little deeper, but rest assured all chicks are lil slųts on the inside.

I made this mistake a few months back thinking this one hot chick I was messing with, was a saint, good girl, not like that, prude,

Boy..... was I wrong.

 

[nyc123]

and then she appears on the date- monstrous and fat... and dtf...

haha jk

smoovemoves is right. you'll have to gauge it tomorrow based on the evidence.

 

[gravityeyelids]

Ask yourself for a second why she is on tinder? I can guarantee (unless she's a total low quality whale) that it's not because she wants to find a future husband. She's not looking for friends either. She wants to bang, you just have to escalate without ever verbalizing the possibility.

There's not much harm in asking if she wants an alcoholic drink with you. She'll either say no or she wont

There's not much of any harm in pushing for the lay that night. As you said, she leaves saturday. Worst case she politely declines and you still have the possibility to meet up with her friday or whatever. Best case you take her home and fvck the sh!t out of her.

 

[Comatozed]

Show time.

I might suggest a little walk in the near by park after coffee to build up a bit more comfort and then back to mine for a movie.

Let's see how I manage to balls this one up hahaha