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zinc4

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She came here to my hotel/suite lobby cafe. Local vegas girl. Hugged me when she saw me. Looked better than her pics actually.

We had a good convo for about an hour and as things tilted down i told her the weather outside didnt look so good around the pool. So i said how about just a funny movie upstairs.

She smiled and said that's a little soon for me but we can meet for drinks sometime next week. I said sure.

I walked with her towards her car and she said i didnt need to go all the way with her to her car so i gave her a quick one arm hug. She kind of stuck her face out though like she wanted a kiss or something. Im only here to bang on first dates though. So will accept her offer only if she texts me. Not interested in just a lovey dovey kiss at end of date. Mission failed on this one.

Got a decent looking cougar coming over at 8 pm. Just texted her and told her i just feel like staying in with her and watching a movie. Easy no if she declines. Not getting baited on a no sex date anymore unless its just an exceptionally attractive woman and for drinks.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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They know they are a dime a dozen they just hope the guy hasn't figured it out yet
 

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She came here to my hotel/suite lobby cafe. Local vegas girl. Hugged me when she saw me. Looked better than her pics actually.

We had a good convo for about an hour and as things tilted down i told her the weather outside didnt look so good around the pool. So i said how about just a funny movie upstairs.

She smiled and said that's a little soon for me but we can meet for drinks sometime next week. I said sure.

I walked with her towards her car and she said i didnt need to go all the way with her to her car so i gave her a quick one arm hug. She kind of stuck her face out though like she wanted a kiss or something. Im only here to bang on first dates though. So will accept her offer only if she texts me. Not interested in just a lovey dovey kiss at end of date. Mission failed on this one.

Got a decent looking cougar coming over at 8 pm. Just texted her and told her i just feel like staying in with her and watching a movie. Easy no if she declines. Not getting baited on a no sex date anymore unless its just an exceptionally attractive woman and for drinks.
Do you get this many matches when not in Vegas?
 

zinc4

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Do you get this many matches when not in Vegas?
No definitely not. I did match with and bang a super hot latin chick in Atlanta though right before i came here.

The best place i have been in the world for online dating though was Hong Kong. You can have dates set up with legit 8s and even 9s four to five nights a week or more of all different races and ethnicities mostly asian though ofcourse which im most attracted to anyways.

I was in Miami though last year and bumble got me only a few dates. Miami was much harder in general. Atlanta is also a good bit harder.

I was in the Dominican Republic and it was just okay good but not great. I ended up meeting a great Venezuelan girl though and dating her for 3 months.

Also here in vegas i get a lot of whales messaging me too. I just ignore unmatch immediately.

Because when i swipe i dont have time to even look at the profiles i just swipe right repeatedly super fast for a good 15 to 30 mins at a time throughout the day then filter out the girls as they message me.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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She came here to my hotel/suite lobby cafe. Local vegas girl. Hugged me when she saw me. Looked better than her pics actually.

We had a good convo for about an hour and as things tilted down i told her the weather outside didnt look so good around the pool. So i said how about just a funny movie upstairs.

She smiled and said that's a little soon for me but we can meet for drinks sometime next week. I said sure.

I walked with her towards her car and she said i didnt need to go all the way with her to her car so i gave her a quick one arm hug. She kind of stuck her face out though like she wanted a kiss or something. Im only here to bang on first dates though. So will accept her offer only if she texts me. Not interested in just a lovey dovey kiss at end of date. Mission failed on this one.

Got a decent looking cougar coming over at 8 pm. Just texted her and told her i just feel like staying in with her and watching a movie. Easy no if she declines. Not getting baited on a no sex date anymore unless its just an exceptionally attractive woman and for drinks.
"Sometime next week" sounds like a bunch of BS. It's not a dentist's appointment.

I think maybe you could have tried getting close to her and escalating, because her reaction to that would have told you exactly what the deal is. It was maybe a bit abrupt to try to go from a totally platonic conversation over coffee to the bedroom. You need to get her in the mood first.
 
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