Just wondering if I should get some tips for my situation.
The situation: Last semester in my Philosophy class, there was this girl who I found stunning looks-wise. However, we never got the chance to talk to each other. I come from a college with smaller class room sizes, so this being my first year at University with huge lectures, I’m finding it really difficult to converse with people. However I would see her from time to time in between classes, and when our paths crossed she would always smile at me. The time when our paths would cross would usually be quite small, I would just notice her as soon as she was in front of me... so with a slow reaction time, we would have already passed each other and I didn’t want to go running after her (I didn’t even know her name.)
Anyways this semester I saw her on the train to school. She initiated conversation with me and we talked the entire time. We also walked towards our classes together, and we got to my building first. I told her I had to go but it was nice chatting with her. I completely forgot to ask for her number or out for coffee after classes.
On the weekend, I was cleaning out my email inbox (which has hundreds of unread messages – I belong to a bunch of different organizations and I have my own idiosyntric way of organizing important/less important emails. ) She had emailed the entire class asking for notes from a missed class (this happens a lot, and I usually ignore them because they get quite annoying during exam times.) Anyways, I noticed the name on the email was the same... so I sent one off inquiring if it was the same person and if she wanted to go for coffee. Well, it was and she agreed.
I don’t know if I seem a bit creepy though, finding her email was a coincidence and it was only a couple days after we had first talked. I know I’m probably overanalyzing things and I should be happy that I got a date, but I’m wondering if I should adjust my game for the date tomorrow? Go a little bit slower, maybe not engage in Kino? What would you suggest?
By the way, I am 23. I don’t know her exact age, but she just graduated from High School, so she either
just turned 18 or just turned 19.
The situation: Last semester in my Philosophy class, there was this girl who I found stunning looks-wise. However, we never got the chance to talk to each other. I come from a college with smaller class room sizes, so this being my first year at University with huge lectures, I’m finding it really difficult to converse with people. However I would see her from time to time in between classes, and when our paths crossed she would always smile at me. The time when our paths would cross would usually be quite small, I would just notice her as soon as she was in front of me... so with a slow reaction time, we would have already passed each other and I didn’t want to go running after her (I didn’t even know her name.)
Anyways this semester I saw her on the train to school. She initiated conversation with me and we talked the entire time. We also walked towards our classes together, and we got to my building first. I told her I had to go but it was nice chatting with her. I completely forgot to ask for her number or out for coffee after classes.
On the weekend, I was cleaning out my email inbox (which has hundreds of unread messages – I belong to a bunch of different organizations and I have my own idiosyntric way of organizing important/less important emails. ) She had emailed the entire class asking for notes from a missed class (this happens a lot, and I usually ignore them because they get quite annoying during exam times.) Anyways, I noticed the name on the email was the same... so I sent one off inquiring if it was the same person and if she wanted to go for coffee. Well, it was and she agreed.
I don’t know if I seem a bit creepy though, finding her email was a coincidence and it was only a couple days after we had first talked. I know I’m probably overanalyzing things and I should be happy that I got a date, but I’m wondering if I should adjust my game for the date tomorrow? Go a little bit slower, maybe not engage in Kino? What would you suggest?
By the way, I am 23. I don’t know her exact age, but she just graduated from High School, so she either
just turned 18 or just turned 19.