Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
that sounded stupid... you'd mean purple pills or skittles... thats the normal names for the stuff... syrup in sprite is a litle... stupid sounding... though i did know one chick who would put maple syrup in her milk...
Originally posted by CapiCrimini
that sounded stupid... you'd mean purple pills or skittles... thats the normal names for the stuff... syrup in sprite is a litle... stupid sounding... though i did know one chick who would put maple syrup in her milk...
Fool shut yo mouth if you don't know what you're talking about. Codeine is not purple. In it's processed form it is a white bitter powder. That purple stuff you're talking about is the cough syrup ****. 10% of the codeine you consume get's transformed into morphine by liver. Say no to opiates unless you like severe constipation.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Mr.Hash wid da Stash said:
Purple drank, sizzurp, and lean are all I've heard before, which refers to when people mix it with sprite.CapiCrimini said:that sounded stupid... you'd mean purple pills or skittles... thats the normal names for the stuff... syrup in sprite is a litle... stupid sounding... though i did know one chick who would put maple syrup in her milk...
