"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cod3r's Approach Journal: Getting Back in the Habit (50 in ~20days)

Cod3r

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I've decided to liven up my life instead of just succumbing to it, excitement with the ladies has been lacking as I've been shackled up for the last 6 months. Not going to take anything too far and my main objective is actually new friends, female friends and male friends.. but only approaching females ;)

I'm going to do 50 approaches by the end of this month, that gives me around ~20 days. Going to see if I can't do some insta-dates, but basically numbers and LJBF all the girls into my friendzone so I will have a wider network and possibly a prospect if things with me and the lady don't work out...

I'll be starting tommorow and doing mostly day approaches as night-game is too tempting n don't want to be tempted into kissing or fingering or any of that nonsense, first few will be rusty btw... 6 months.. ahh


September 8:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Cod3r

Master Don Juan
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Starting tommorow... Busy week for me...



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