bigbird090
Don Juan
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- Aug 9, 2011
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So I have a co-worker who wears a diamond ring on her left ring finger (engagement?). To sum it up, our "relationship" is as follows:
-we instant message all day about random things and topics
-she at times comes over for help with stuff (she's new to our team)
-once, I mentioned getting drinks/happy hour and she agreed and even provided places we could go to. She said she loved beer and even made it easy on me by telling me about a place connected to our building we could go to.
-never mentions a significant other/spouse/fiance/bf in our conversations
-we went out for lunch once and she said that we should sign up for trainings together (trainings = traveling at my job)
-One time, I stopped messaging her for a couple days except for quick comments/questions. At a lunch she told me that I hadn't been sending her messages anymore and that she is good at multi-tasking (I told her I didn't message her because she looked busy)
Anyways, today she told me about a house she was inquiring about. I told her to go for it since she can split the costs with her husband -I did this to get her to agree or tell me she's not married. She agreed about the costs, but said that it's more complicated than splitting the costs 50/50. Thus, I assumed she was married. In addition, she asked if I was married. I said "not even close" and she said, "well you don't know how it works".
What do I do now? Leave her alone?
-we instant message all day about random things and topics
-she at times comes over for help with stuff (she's new to our team)
-once, I mentioned getting drinks/happy hour and she agreed and even provided places we could go to. She said she loved beer and even made it easy on me by telling me about a place connected to our building we could go to.
-never mentions a significant other/spouse/fiance/bf in our conversations
-we went out for lunch once and she said that we should sign up for trainings together (trainings = traveling at my job)
-One time, I stopped messaging her for a couple days except for quick comments/questions. At a lunch she told me that I hadn't been sending her messages anymore and that she is good at multi-tasking (I told her I didn't message her because she looked busy)
Anyways, today she told me about a house she was inquiring about. I told her to go for it since she can split the costs with her husband -I did this to get her to agree or tell me she's not married. She agreed about the costs, but said that it's more complicated than splitting the costs 50/50. Thus, I assumed she was married. In addition, she asked if I was married. I said "not even close" and she said, "well you don't know how it works".
What do I do now? Leave her alone?