Co-worker seems to like me

[guitaronfire411]

My co-worker told me about a customer who asked how to prevent her dog from mounting other dogs over a week ago. Se turned red and looked down afterwards. This was the day before I went on vacation. She also oddly mentioned her phone number and whether it was in the book. I suspect she wanted me to get her number but she did it so awkwardly that I was confused.

I've gotten numbers before and normally it's not such a big deal. I'm really rusty and haven't sarged properly in forever. I'm not sure how to pull this one off without coming off too aggressively. I see her tomorrow for a few hours. My job is temporary so there's no need to say I should be careful about losing my job.

Thoughts?

 

[COD]

avoid dipping your pen in company ink. Ummm celebrate your last day by going out for a drink.

Cell phones.........whip it out, tell her to give u her digits.......YA I SAID TELL.....HEY WHATS YOUR NUMBER.........NEVER ASK

THEN CALL WHEN U WANT TO GO OUT

DONT SCEW THIS UP BY OVER THINKING , KEEP IT SIMPLE

 

[guitaronfire411]

IMO, that's B.S. If you're an advanced PUA, you can wing this stuff with ease. I'm just very rusty, that is all.

I did whip out my cellphone and she entered the number today. I used to adhere to telling as well but I think a soothing and confident voice tonality is more important than the words themselves. The old adage, 'It's not what you say, but how you say it' is so damned true.

What f^cked this up and almost blew it to hell was this:

me: (asked about where she met her boyfriend)
her: blah blah (location)
me: (I said nothing)
her: (shares info about her boyfriend being really sick...)
me: (this would normally fux0r a PUA's plans .... what kind of sick bastard picks up a girl with a seriously ill boyfriend?! Me, apparently!)
me: Oh...wow. (I think)
me: What's your cell #? (direct as hell)
her: Why? (somewhat annoyed/angry)
me: (being absolutely honest and looking straight at her) I like talking to you.
her: Oh, okay...why not? (picks up my cell phone that I opened and had put onto the table infront of her seconds before)

She left today saying she'll see me (specific day) this week, looking back over her shoulder. I said I'd see her then and then wished her a good night.

 

[theunflushables]

Dog mounting? Wondering if her number is in the book? I don't neccesairly know if this constitutes showing interest, but hey congrats on getting her #. Now put it to good use.

 

[MikeYikes122]

I used to adhere to telling as well but I think a soothing and confident voice tonality is more important than the words themselves. The old adage, 'It's not what you say, but how you say it' is so damned true.

And you're 100 percent right for abandoning that old "telling" rule. There's no need to tell a girl to give you her phone number. If you've done your job up until that point of building rapport and generating attraction, she'll be more than willing to give you her phone number, even if you just ask. Just don't be an AFC about it and be confident in your delivery when you ask.

The problem with these guys who advocate telling a girl to give you her phone number is newbies read them and think that they have to close a chick by saying "give me your digits". If you're gonna adhere to the rule of telling a chick to give up the digits, you should say "Hey, let me get your phone number". Don't say something like "give me your phone number".

A guy who knows how to build attraction doesn't need to tell a girl to give him her phone number. A guy who truly has game will have a girl anticipating the moment that he is going to ask her for her phone number.

 

[guitaronfire411]

Thanks for the replies guys.

I'm at a moral dilemma at this point. Her boyfriend has a severe form of sickle- leukemia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leukemia) and she took the day off about two weeks ago rather suddenly when she learned about it.

When she gave me the number yesterday she was somewhat reluctant about it. It takes a lot of trust for her to open up and she has shared personal information with me that I doubt she'd entrust upon just anyone. I'm just not sure what I should do at this point because her boyfriend is so sick. Should I continue to develop rapport and seem like her caretaker? That's how I attracted a different Virgo a few years back. She seems to be attracted to me as well but I don't want to ruin everything I have achieved with her by making a dumb move.

Whenever I've had a girl looking back at me over her shoulder it has only lead to good things.