I work in a restaurant,and for anyone who has worked in a similar environment, you should know everybody ends up screwing each other(especially where I work...).
Well, a party was thrown in my honor and all of my co-workers attended. Most of the women were throwing themeselves at me as I was being the fun, confident, wild, good-looking guy that I am! I could have hooked up with several. I began talking to one of my co-workers friends, and she invited me to stay the night at her apartment(where my co-worker lives as well.) Now, this co-worker is one hot chick. I bust her balls, am excellent in her prescence, flirt with her, and I am confident she finds me wildly attractive! I did not pay her too much attention, while a male co-worker of mine did(groping her, being obvious, not a challenge..).
I had decided right when I began working with her that I was going to make it hard for this chick to get to me, and I have alwys kept her on her toes. All of the other guys I work with moved in like wild wolves, while I have sat back. I am basically the attractive guy that no one has gotten too(I'll talk to women outside of work...this is just for fun!)
As I'm leaving the party, she is with the other guy(hugging) while I am with her friend. She yells at me to treat her friend right or something, and I told her to shut-up. We get back to the apartment, and my co-worker is not there yet. My girl buddy is making arrangements for me to stay when my co-worker comes home(minus the male co-worker she was with) alone, and playfully yells at me, and we flirt a little bit. Then some female drama crap ensued with these 20 yr old chicks(over me I'm guessing, as well as amongst themselves..).
The chick I was going to hook up with and my co-worker go upstairs to talk. My coworker comes down and pulls me into the bathroom and demands to know what I want. She says I can have whatever I want, and I could have it all-referring to women. She says all the chicks were all over me throughout the night, so honestly, what do I want? I do not answer her questions, and I certainly don't mention her being an option(we flirt, were attracted, etc.)Then she pulls this one out of her azz. "I know we bullshyt(flirt) with each other, but come on were friends(I have called her my friend at earlier times just busting on her..), and me and you aren't going to happen."
What? Hahaha!! In no way, shape, or form did I imply I wanted to hook up with her, and she brings this up all by herself! I laugh b/c something tells me this chick really likes me, is jealous, and is using the concerned friend role as a mask. I would consider hooking up with this hottie, but shes gotta work!
Guys, I gotta think shes pullin' an old shyt test on me b/c I have been completely non-AFC around her, the unquestionable prize, and I feel the tension between us. I've never had this said to me in this manner perse, so I just wanna see if you guys could help me identify a situation like this as a test or a tactic of manipulation on the chicks part.?
She might have just been being a "good friend", but she was a little drunk, and she's a young, cute chick who gets attention from everyone...except me!! What can you guys observe from my description? Thanks, peace
Well, a party was thrown in my honor and all of my co-workers attended. Most of the women were throwing themeselves at me as I was being the fun, confident, wild, good-looking guy that I am! I could have hooked up with several. I began talking to one of my co-workers friends, and she invited me to stay the night at her apartment(where my co-worker lives as well.) Now, this co-worker is one hot chick. I bust her balls, am excellent in her prescence, flirt with her, and I am confident she finds me wildly attractive! I did not pay her too much attention, while a male co-worker of mine did(groping her, being obvious, not a challenge..).
I had decided right when I began working with her that I was going to make it hard for this chick to get to me, and I have alwys kept her on her toes. All of the other guys I work with moved in like wild wolves, while I have sat back. I am basically the attractive guy that no one has gotten too(I'll talk to women outside of work...this is just for fun!)
As I'm leaving the party, she is with the other guy(hugging) while I am with her friend. She yells at me to treat her friend right or something, and I told her to shut-up. We get back to the apartment, and my co-worker is not there yet. My girl buddy is making arrangements for me to stay when my co-worker comes home(minus the male co-worker she was with) alone, and playfully yells at me, and we flirt a little bit. Then some female drama crap ensued with these 20 yr old chicks(over me I'm guessing, as well as amongst themselves..).
The chick I was going to hook up with and my co-worker go upstairs to talk. My coworker comes down and pulls me into the bathroom and demands to know what I want. She says I can have whatever I want, and I could have it all-referring to women. She says all the chicks were all over me throughout the night, so honestly, what do I want? I do not answer her questions, and I certainly don't mention her being an option(we flirt, were attracted, etc.)Then she pulls this one out of her azz. "I know we bullshyt(flirt) with each other, but come on were friends(I have called her my friend at earlier times just busting on her..), and me and you aren't going to happen."
What? Hahaha!! In no way, shape, or form did I imply I wanted to hook up with her, and she brings this up all by herself! I laugh b/c something tells me this chick really likes me, is jealous, and is using the concerned friend role as a mask. I would consider hooking up with this hottie, but shes gotta work!
Guys, I gotta think shes pullin' an old shyt test on me b/c I have been completely non-AFC around her, the unquestionable prize, and I feel the tension between us. I've never had this said to me in this manner perse, so I just wanna see if you guys could help me identify a situation like this as a test or a tactic of manipulation on the chicks part.?
She might have just been being a "good friend", but she was a little drunk, and she's a young, cute chick who gets attention from everyone...except me!! What can you guys observe from my description? Thanks, peace
