"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CNN publishes This...about texting women.

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http://www.cnn.com/2013/07/03/opinion/jones-texting-dating/index.html?eref=mrss_igoogle_cnn

Now of course, there are times when a "U & I R DUN" text may be in order. But that rule is only acceptable if you've gone out once or twice and had an awful experience. Dumping or even divorcing someone via text message is just cowardice. It's a punk move but it happens quite often and not just among teens, as pop star Katy Perry tells us in the July issue of Vogue magazine.

"He's a very smart man, and I was in love with him when I married him," Perry says, of her ex-husband Russell Brand. "Let's just say I haven't heard from him since he texted me saying he was divorcing me December 31, 2011."

It's best to say good riddance to a loser like Brand. Because while it may be cute for teenagers to text their sweetheart all day and night, that is really no way for intelligent, confident adults to communicate.

"People can hide themselves in a text message," warns Bela Gandhi, founder of Smart Dating Academy in Chicago.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Katy Perry is one hot piece of meat, but if dude had to divorce her via text then that shows me this chick probably was pure hell to deal and live with.
 
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CNN doesn't get to tell me how to dump someone. I dump a girl however I damn well PLEASE.

Whats the point of a "good break up"? So you can be BFF's with no sex after? What a waste of time. :crackup: :crackup: I've dumped girls via no contact and email before.

I don't need to be "courageous" when weeding out a toxin in my life. I just get rid of it as fast as possible. :up:
 
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Did Anderson Cooper write this article? He probably drunk texted that to his boyfriends.
 
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bradd80 said:
just another societal directive ordering men to treat women well while they abuse us and do whatever the fvck they want
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PlayHer Man said:
CNN doesn't get to tell me how to dump someone. I dump a girl however I damn well PLEASE.

Whats the point of a "good break up"? So you can be BFF's with no sex after? What a waste of time. :crackup: :crackup: I've dumped girls via no contact and email before.

I don't need to be "courageous" when weeding out a toxin in my life. I just get rid of it as fast as possible. :up:
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Hellz to the fück yeah. Agreed 110%. Fücking media...now telling people how to break up..unreal.
 
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