"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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C'mon people be real with yourselvs damnit!!

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To all of you who are just so flustered about how you can't do this, you don't understand that! you read front to back and can't grasp the simple concept of approching or getting things done with women.

You know in yourselvs that the ONLY REASON you cannot succed is because of ONE THING. one thing plauges 90% of you.

FEAR OF REJECTION.

its like a smoker, if he goes out and buys a pack of nicorette, what the hell does it say on the back of the package!

"this product will only work if the person useing it is READY and WILLING to give up smokeing"

You know damn well you understand what's being said here but you can't apply it because you can't approch women, because you are afraid. This site has lead you to the water hole now fu*king drink from it. or walk away thirsty.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Give us some credit, christz; we know damn well that we're scared.

IMO ... when you've lived with fear for long enough, you get to the point where facing your fears is more unpleasant than going without the things you desire.

A man in this sorry state would rather be a poor, weak, ugly, and miserable virgin than get the urine scared out of him and the crap beaten out of him by trying to change that.

You're right that there's fear - there's so much fear that the lure of what could be is no longer powerful enough to motivate us.
 
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Originally posted by christz

You know in yourselvs that the ONLY REASON you cannot succed is because of ONE THING. one thing plauges 90% of you.

FEAR OF REJECTION.
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Yeah, but how many rejections in a row without any successes do you take before it stops becoming fear of rejection and starts becoming certainty?
 
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