"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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CLUP TIP: Using One Girl To Pick Up The Other

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CLUB TIP: Using One Girl To Pick Up The Other

After spending a good amount of time going to different clubs or as they call them here "Discotheques."

Personally i do not like to do a lot of pickups in the club, i just bring my cool female friends or my girl friend.

But a very solid tip is this:

When you are on the dance floor with a female friend or some girl you just picked up dance with them for 1 song. then you look around the club to see if there are any girls by themselves, sitting, and most importantly they ARENT DANCING.

then say to the female friend/girl you just piucked up:

"Hey, come with me, I see this girl that looks sad, lets get her on the dance floor"

If you are with a female friend they probably and should not careless.

If you are with a girl you just picked up, and they get all pissed off or annoyed they aren't worth it anyways.

So you go over and grab a girl sitting down/by herself/on her cellphone.

it doesn't matter if she is with her boyfriend or not. ;)

Then you say to her with you female friend/new girl around your waist/in your grasp:

"Come dance with us now!"

9/10 most chicks want a little reinforcement (where as most guys want/need a lot more)

if they seem a little resistent just say :

"C'mon!" and give them a funny look that fits your personality.

If for some reason they do not come to dance with you, you and your female friend/new girl has something to laugh about and have a good time with. (And try again a little later with a different girl if you don't succeed the first time. The girl may view it as a game but you know better than that :D)

This kind of approach is so money b/c when you have a girl right there with you, the b*tch shield of all the other girls (if in place) completly fade.

When you get the girl to say "ok" or "sure" take her and your other girl to the dance floor and just start havin a good time.

Balance both girls nicely but show a little more attension to the girl you started out with b/c she should be more important for the time being. The 2nd girl will just be happy to be there.

When i have done this sort of thing, either the 1st or 2nd girls' friends come to the dance floor to dance so it is me, 2 girls i picked up(or 1 friend/one pickup), all there friends, and maybe a friend or 2 of mine(if they are so lucky:D ).

This ends of creating a very good amount of social proof and outside interest.

This is such a cool thing to do, becuase i have never heard of anyone doing anything like this or seen it for that matter.

You are almost going against the rules of trying to pick up a girl at the club.

Girls are usually very impressed with this sort of thing becuase of how unusual it is and how it adds to the fun that you all have besides dancing.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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UltimateScoundrel

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wtf? this is CLUB tips!! I wanted CLUP tips. Thanks for getting my hopes up only to dash them on the ground...ass.
 
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