"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Im trying to become social with girls...especially since im setting up a party on saturday. Im completely lost in what to say in conversation so that I can at least get to know them so that I can be able to invite them to the party. Not a big party im planning...maybe 25 tops. Im just completely clueless. Probably putting girls on a pedestal cause I never approached a girl before but Im not sure. People say I can say whateva but I usually talk about school classes most of time and I need to change that cause its probabli boring conversation. I heard that talking about yourself could help and I can see that working cause thats i notice other people doing but how can you do that with someone you don't know.I don't know...please give me some advice cause I am running out of time and need to take lots of action so I can girls at my party.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Keep asking open ended questions and keep saying sh1t like "Oh Interesting!" "Oh how very impressive" "I love that!" "No way really!?" lmao

Have you seen the movie 40 yr old virgin? go see how this guy makes convo with Elizabeth Banks.
 
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theres always soemthing to talk about your telling ur self there isnt so when u it comes time to talk to a girl, you are subconsiously not allowing ur self to come with creative things to talk about, get that mindset out of ur head, even if u were 14 there would be 14 years of living to talk about, talk about how u eat dog biscuits or some shi i dunno lol, alot of times when u admit to something wether its true or false, ppl open up and do the same give it a try
 

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lol nice daygameguy... yeah just pretend to be fully impressed in everything they say but relate it to stuff sorta like forest gump... haha just be impressed but over exadrate your impressed but always do it so they cant tell if u are really or not
 

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There is an entire section in The DJ Bible regarding conversation.

Read first, then post questions

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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