"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BoredDude

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I'm a nice guy, I'm always nice to people I meet (Not loser nice, but I'm a gentleman) and recently a girl slept over and obviously immature teens (like my roommates and the people I hang out with) make a big deal out of this. Now when I go out I'm perceived as a pervert. Why is it so wrong to get with a girl now a days? My roommate's GF told me to **** off (she has only known us for 2 weeks or so) when I said she should bring friends with her next time since all we did was sit around and watched tv as they snuggled and kissed.

So anyways why am I labeled a pervert for this? Why do a lot of people seem to hate me after this? All was fine until I got with this girl, and I have never cheated and never used a girl (The girls I have been with knew it was only a one night thing and were okay with it). Thank God I'm transfering next year, this sh*t is nuts.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh and I have had no issues with women before. And I also don't inappropriatly touch girls either. I feel as though I'm just being used as a scapegoat or just to make them feel better when they are down. I'm not afraid to tell someone what is up, but this situation is mind-boggeling
 
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I know a lot of you guys don't know me, so giving an answer probably isn't easy. It just seems like my world has flipped, and it's slowly killing my confidence. I mean I'm generally good with the women; maybe this is all in my head? I hope so...
 
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lol .. U look like pervert cuz ur immature friends probably said that she slept with you and these things to everyone .. This is not what they like . But anyway i can tell you just one thing .

KEEP MOVING .. Forget about this story . Start picking other girls , have fun with your friends ..

Why do you care so much what her friends think of you ?? fvck them .. Continue life .

And one more thing .. Dont try to change theyre mind .. They hate you - OK u dont hate them . Just forget about them . I think ur not pervert so just keep doing ur thing , have fun and they will come back to you after a few days/months .
 
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Hey thanks, I kind of lost my way there. I honestly don't know why I suddenly cared so much.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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