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clubs? just had first time.

sageproduct

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last night i went to a club in my area called zero gravity for the first time ever. it was BIG risk for me socially, because it is often a punchline at my school because it is supposedly a place where tools and skanks go. i am extremely bored with my friends group right now and was exceptionally horny, so i went out on a limb and took a risk by driving there alone.

when i got there, i was kind of paranoid of being spotted there by anyone who knew me, as it would ruin my reputation. but no one i knew was there. got in, went on the dance floor immediately. at first, i was trying that general club advice of just trying to dance and look like you have fun, and dance close to a girl you want to dance with.

this did NOT work. a few times i tried to inch closer to groups of girls, with bad results each time. maybe it was because this is an underage club (like 16-21 or somethin) or maybe it was because it wasn't that crowded. idk.

then i started watching these 2 guys who danced with a different girl every time i saw them. i noticed that they just snuck up behind a girl, put their hands around their waist, and started grinding. and it worked.

i was trying to work eye contact before that, but it wasn't working. also, smiling seemed to give a creepy vibe at a dance club (the music was waaaay to loud for any talking, even at the tables). so i tried "sneaking up". i'd say in the whole night, i did this to about 15 girls and 5 danced with me. i noticed some would freak out when any guy did this to them and complain to their friends. a couple did this to me, but i later noticed them dancing with other guys.

to be honest, first girl i danced with was a true fatty lol. i was just glad to start grinding with SOMEONE. then in the next 3 hours i walked around, watched some guys who were good, and tried to grind with other girls. only about 2 that i danced with id say were attractive.

more details that i coul put up later.

SUMMARY: i went to an underage dance club for the first time. anyone go to clubs?
 

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RollinDo

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No...underage clubs seem gay why club and not be drugged out? lol half joking. But good job on grinding with a few chicks the only advice I could think of would be to be more confident and make sure you look fly oh ya and being a good dancer helps (dancing not grinding but not like tha tango and all that I mean like 'urban' dancing)
 

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haha ya, i was trying to just enjoy myself dancing out there and didn't get any girls' attention or eye contact so i went to cold approaching from behind and placing my hands on their waists.
 
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