"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Clubs horrible place to meet women

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ketostix said:
I'm not saying clubs are a bad place to meet women, but for a lot of guys they are. Even the ugly girls, girls most people wouldn't give the time of day to outside of a drunken bar setting, get hit on validated out the ass by drunk guys. And the hot girls even moreso. Generally there's more guys than girls, and if you turn on the nights and take the beer goggles off you'd probably notice that very few of the women there are really that attractive. .
so true, sometimes at clubs i see some female school mates, which to me they are fugly and they be surrounded by guys with their egos stroked thinking they are the ****. then during the week they'll be back at their slump.

true macks arent in the business of pumping egos of attention hoes.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JackPrescott said:
"Easier said than done" This guy could easily spend 500 bucks on his wardrobe, and drop 150 bucks a night on drinks, and DJ the hell out of these women, and if they are just there to dance with their friends, they will gladly drink up his liquor and talk to him for 8 seconds before one of their girlfriends grabs her hand and rushes her off to the bathroom, to be rid of him.
Again, you are playing the pity card. He has to be so good and make her forget why she even came to club in the first place and get weak knees from his game. He has to be so good at picking her up that the even if the woman is there to dance with her friends, she'll want to keep talking to him, dance with him and go home with him.

If you went to watch a live football game with your buddies and a girl was so good at getting your attention while you there that you wanted to sleep with her that night, you wouldn't care who won the game or what the score was.

Be so good that they can't ignore you.
 

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I thought clubs were one of the easiest places because: its loud,dark, and they are usually drunk. If you can dance decently and show ambition sometimes you dont even need to talk lol. I got a few girls from clubs. But yes I think most are snobs who go to get free drinks.
 

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all i hear is "blah blah blah i went to the club and stood in the corner and got no girls blah blah blah insert excuses here blah blah"

One time I went to the club and this hb8 came up to me and my friend and opened us. I was so shocked, it was hilarious. I ended up dancing with her and my friend danced with her friend. Then, I just started making out with her on the dance floor. Next, I number closed her and banged her the next weekend.

Clubs are so easy... You either get girls looking for attention or to bang or both. You just need to go up to chicks and start dancing.
 

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See my "Opinon" thread, probably on the second page. Clubs are my mainstay..i love it, i find it the easiest place in the world to meet women. However give me a great girl with personality outside the club and i will f it up;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've met lots of cool, quality people in clubs ... maybe because they were there to check out the cool shows/events I was there to check out...
 

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How many people who don't like going to clubs either can't dance or are not really down with hip hop or trance/electronica music? I have to say my primary reason for going to clubs is so I can slide through the floor and dance to the music I love. I RARELY go there with the intent of hooking up but more with the notion that I'm gonna hear good jams and have a good time.

I'm a big fan of dance music. I'm listening to Slim Thug - Theme Song before I go to work cause it gets me pumped! The music guides my lifestyle.
 

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shyt, everything s already been said...

hate to admit it but for once i m 100% behind what Don Juan 11 said in his first reply.

clubs are a great place to find ONS material, probably the best, it just requires a different type of game. Yes, you do need to know some basic dance moves, show confidence and be super-aggressive. If you can combine this with good looks you got a winner, if not you need a lot of social proof, but you can still get around it.

Also, it is fvcking expensive to drink there, just pretend you re the designated driver or something and stop after a couple drinks. If you keep on pounding drinks you ll wake up the next morning with a $200 hole in you bank account and no idea how it happened, so beware...
 
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