Clubs and Bars.. the best spot around to get girls is.. OUTSIDE and club guide kinda

[IamtheAlphamale]

Ok, I cannot even believe how much easier it is to get girls numbers and stuff outside. Its unbelievable. Try this out. Open with a compliment about what they are wearing and its almost too easy. So far I'm doing 100%. Basically after you open with the compliment and it needs to be sincere. And a good way to do this is just compliment tons of chicks on stuff they are wearing because that way you get used to picking clothing and stuff out quickly. Honestly, I was having a smoke and I turn and check out some chick at the front of the line, make eyecontact, approach, she says hi first I compliment her scarf she says "It was worth the 12.99 if it got you to talk to me." Its seriously too easy outside, ESPECIALLY after the bars close. This is THE BEST and easiest time to mack. First of all your opener is... which way is your cab going?!? This is good because when the bars close theres too many people looking for cabs therefore people share cabs to make sure they can get them. Also if your looking to pick up any girl alone is easy. First of all they are probably drunk and their friends are not around so you already have her alone which means her sluty metre is 1000%. Also after going to the bar a lot lately I have to say giving a compliment on stuff a girl is wearing or her hair kills the ***** shield. It is a lot easier and I get way more numbers when doing this. For a while lately I was having such bad luck at the bar since it was new. This time I was much more interested in talking to the people compared to actually getting their number.

Basically when you first start going to the bar at first its ok gotta pick up get or get some rejections. Getting rejections for a while before you get serious is good because it makes you comfortable with the environment. Eventually you will stop caring so much and get your groove down. Now pretty soon you just know what to do in each setting. BTW for talking to a girl compliments are killer. But bar talk is pretty much the same as usual. The reason people do not do as well at the bar when they start is because it is a foreign environment. I got KILLED when I started but now I'm KILLING it. I got so many fake numbers when I started but now its coming together and I'm getting a groove for it. Do not buy girls drinks. If they ask shrug it off this is practically customary. Some guys say if a chick asks you for a drink next her etc. Don't mean ****. Sometimes this is a girls way of telling you shes interested in you. Also heres a little tip. If the waitress is a hot bartender compliment her on her hair or something. You get served much faster for the rest of the night. See the reason why compliments on clothes and stuff like that work so well at the bar/club is because girls dress up hardcore for this environment. They try really hard to make themselves look great for it. EVERY SINGLE ONE. Therefore when you compliment them on something they are like YES I HAVE GOOD STYLE. I complimented so many girls I would give them as I walked by. OHH I was doing a walkby compliment to this one chick and heres what she did. First DEATH STARE. "JUST KEEP WALKING." It was pretty funny actually. Anyways I hope this helped some of you out. Remember generally compliments suck but using one straight off is great for killing the ***** shield which makes the whole game easier. You can go from having to spend 10 min on a girl to getting a number in two. Also don't under estimate the power of being nice. Sure girls supposedly like *******s but if you exude confidence being nice is your friend. It makes you stand out much more. Girls are people too you never have to treat them badly just remember to stay a challenge.

 

[rrrrr]

Thanks for the tip I'll try this.

 

[realsmoothie]

You know... now that I think about it a lot of this is totally true.

The "share a cab" thing is easy as pie, though once you get IN the cab you only have so much time!

I don't smoke but I'll go outside of a club several times a night just to get "fresh" air (LOL). Quite often I'll see people that I saw inside the bar who were with friends and thus more difficult to approach. It's almost like you're "taking a break" from the performances in the bar.

As for post-close, yeah... I always walk back to my place after clubbing, it's a good twenty minute walk but it's on a major throughfare for post-clubbers heading home, and there's always crazy stuff going on. Occasionally there's a girl or two and you can yack with them.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

Also if you can manage to get playing a game of pool or something at a bar.. for some reason they come to you or atleast its a lot easier to start up a convo without it seeming like your hitting on them.

 

[rrrrr]

I have a theory why this is so, and I appreciate the good tip. I think part of the problem is girls don't want to come off as slutty, or cheap. They may feel "desperate" or all the bad connotations actually meeting a guy at a bar. So, if you meet them outside the bar, it releives them of that "slutty" feeling they may have. Do you think this is true?

I also found this works outside of bars. I don't know about you guys, but Scottsdale, AZ has this area where a large cluster of bars are, plenty of foot traffic on the sidewalks, women DO seem a lot more open when you catch them in public like that.

 

[Jay Jay]

In total agreement.

You can have a normal convo.

You can see them porperly.

You stand out.

Yup, outside is the way to go.

JJ

 

[green69]

Yea now that you mention it, outside is definitely the way to go! The overall atmosphere is better outside than actually inside the club. On the street at 2 am there is a sense of camaraderie between everyone as most people are drunk.

Girls (and people in general) seem more open outside than inside when they're under the influence. The other week I had a random girl just slap my ass as she was walking by with a group of friends - that would rarely happen inside the club.

There are also lots more excuses to start up conversations, as the original poster was saying. Cabs, people asking for smokes, random sh*t happening you can comment and start up a topic with someone you're standing next to. And the b!tch shield is 10x less than it is in the club.

Also, probably the biggest reason for this is because I think that people feel much more drunk outside the club than inside. Like when I'm in the club, I'll have like 6-7 drinks (I'm a lightweight) and I feel a little buzzed maybe...though I'm way above the limit. I don't really FEEL that drunk to be honest. But like the second I step outside...it's like "whoa...what just happened." Suddenly I get that buzz feeling, everything is slightly blurry and I feel really drunk. I've confirmed this notion with other people, girls included, and a lot of them agreed that they feel much more drunk afterwards than actually in the club. I think it has something to do with the loud music or something which dampens your senses or some sh*t. I might be way off but whatever the actually reason is, I feel 10x more sober inside the club.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

I have a theory why this is so, and I appreciate the good tip. I think part of the problem is girls don't want to come off as slutty, or cheap. They may feel "desperate" or all the bad connotations actually meeting a guy at a bar. So, if you meet them outside the bar, it releives them of that "slutty" feeling they may have. Do you think this is true?

Yep, I'm gonna have to agree. And to add to what the others were saying I gotta say one extra little thing. In the club its really dark and you can't really tell if a girl is hot, but outside you can tell.

 

[The Bartender]

It's probably a comfort level thing for the chicks. Inside they know guys are going to just hit on them all night. Outside is basically the same as meeting any girl outside anywhere. Catches them off guard and makes them more apt to give out their numbers.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

At work has to be the easiest.

 

[STR8UP]

Yea, outside the club the chicks DEFINITELY loosen up.

There's a very popular all night pizza joint a few blocks from my house, right in the middle of the club district that I stop by from time to time after a night out. I go inside and get a slice or two and then I go back out and stand on the street to eat. Almost every time I have chicks asking for a bite of my pizza and sh!t.

24 hour breakfast joints that are close to the clubs are also fun.

 

[realsmoothie]

Almost every time I have chicks asking for a bite of my pizza and sh!t.

LOL, who are you, Eddie Murphy? Everything "and sh*t".

But I'll second the 24 hour breakfast thing. We have a crappy diner in town, SO brutal in terms of food, but greasy and cheap. Big fat waitresses. A GREAT post-bar experience.