"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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rapsta

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Try this out. You go to a club with the main priority to enjoy yourself right? Are you anxious about lacking dancing skills? Man trust me, FVCK THAT! But I'll get back to that later. Lemme just get some things straight..

We all enjoy ourselves in different ways when clubbing right?. Some of us wanna smoke a blunt and just relax to the music, some of us just wanna have a corona with or without our friends, some of us just wanna go out and dance, some of us wanna meet new people, and some of us wanna get a girl.

YES! get a girl I wrote. So many people are saying that you don't go clubbing to get a girl, you go out clubbing to have fun. Well how about having fun AND getting a girl AND having some more fun during the ONS fvck? Isn't that enjoying yourself?
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Anyways, what I wanted to tip you about was something that I've tried lately, and it works very very well :D

Now I don't wanna brag but I can dance. I've been into breakdancing, street dancing, electric boogie and more. So I know how to dance alright.
But it doesn't really matter when it comes to dancing in the clubs.
All you gotta do is move to the music the way you want to, just take it easy, relax, chill out, nobody is gonna shoot you if you make a mistake. So don't worry about it.

But on the other hand.. let's just say that this girl you are trying to impress on, IS A GREAT DANCER. And what the hell are you trying to do? impress on her? It wouldn't matter if usher did that in a club it would look pretty gay in her eyes if she is somewhat sober. Okay sure, go ahead and try out new moves in the club, but cmon man.. don't try to impress on a girl with how great of a dancer you are.

If you still wanna know about the tip:

1. I get her eyecontact and smile (I usually stay somewhat close to her, but It's not that nessecary)

2. I'm dancing like I'm having fun. That's what ladies like remember? Guys who are fun..
Now everyone will argue and say "I'm always having fun when dancing" but that irrelevant. When I say fun i mean you actually dance and don't really care about how you dance. You just move to the music and do some moves that show how fun you're having. And no I don't mean jumping around like a fool but use your imagination. And as I do the moves, i have a smily face expression with dimmed happy eyes that actually says "I AM A GODLIKE dancer but im just playing"

3. She will smile. YES SHE WILL GIVE YOU A WARM SMILE IF SHE ISN'T A PSYCHO. They always do. Go ahead and try it out. Use your imagination.

4. Congratulations, you just opened the lady up. If she finds you attractive (why would she smile if she don't?), she is willing to grind on you and give you her number if you tell her to.


Seriously this works everywhere. Even worked on 45 year old ladies for me, even though I usually go for the 20-25 year olds. They find it fvcking CHARMY.

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Another thing I found worked great while I was out clubbing last night is this:
I went up to two ladies, they were both 23 years old if it matters. I asked them (this is a lousy translation to english but use your imagination) "Do you gotta know how to dance in order to join you two here?"
Congratulations rapsta you just opened the ladies up, they said something like "nooo" and something else but I dont remember, and they just smiled.

To make sure that this wasn't an occasional thing, I went up to another pair of two ladies. One of them rejected my friend earlier that night (he told her "show me how you dance" and she was like tsss with a b1tchy look), and I just smiled (she noticed me smiling).
Anyways I went up to these two ladies and i asked them the same thing: "Do you gotta know how to dance in order to join you two here?"
And opened the two of them up too. They accepted me with warmth.

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Now many of you will probably read this and go like " congratulations rapsta, you are the new Cristopher Columbus, you just invented something "new" "
I'm not totally aware of everyones knowledge level so i thought I'd post a successful tip. Be free to give feedback on what you think about it.
 

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DJ Hawtness

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Originally posted by rapsta
Try this out. You go to a club with the main priority to enjoy yourself right? Are you anxious about lacking dancing skills? Man trust me, FVCK THAT! But I'll get back to that later. Lemme just get some things straight..

We all enjoy ourselves in different ways when clubbing right?. Some of us wanna smoke a blunt and just relax to the music, some of us just wanna have a corona with or without our friends, some of us just wanna go out and dance, some of us wanna meet new people, and some of us wanna get a girl.

YES! get a girl I wrote. So many people are saying that you don't go clubbing to get a girl, you go out clubbing to have fun. Well how about having fun AND getting a girl AND having some more fun during the ONS fvck? Isn't that enjoying yourself?
---
Anyways, what I wanted to tip you about was something that I've tried lately, and it works very very well :D

Now I don't wanna brag but I can dance. I've been into breakdancing, street dancing, electric boogie and more. So I know how to dance alright.
But it doesn't really matter when it comes to dancing in the clubs.
All you gotta do is move to the music the way you want to, just take it easy, relax, chill out, nobody is gonna shoot you if you make a mistake. So don't worry about it.

But on the other hand.. let's just say that this girl you are trying to impress on, IS A GREAT DANCER. And what the hell are you trying to do? impress on her? It wouldn't matter if usher did that in a club it would look pretty gay in her eyes if she is somewhat sober. Okay sure, go ahead and try out new moves in the club, but cmon man.. don't try to impress on a girl with how great of a dancer you are.

If you still wanna know about the tip:

1. I get her eyecontact and smile (I usually stay somewhat close to her, but It's not that nessecary)

2. I'm dancing like I'm having fun. That's what ladies like remember? Guys who are fun..
Now everyone will argue and say "I'm always having fun when dancing" but that irrelevant. When I say fun i mean you actually dance and don't really care about how you dance. You just move to the music and do some moves that show how fun you're having. And no I don't mean jumping around like a fool but use your imagination. And as I do the moves, i have a smily face expression with dimmed happy eyes that actually says "I AM A GODLIKE dancer but im just playing"

3. She will smile. YES SHE WILL GIVE YOU A WARM SMILE IF SHE ISN'T A PSYCHO. They always do. Go ahead and try it out. Use your imagination.

4. Congratulations, you just opened the lady up. If she finds you attractive (why would she smile if she don't?), she is willing to grind on you and give you her number if you tell her to.


Seriously this works everywhere. Even worked on 45 year old ladies for me, even though I usually go for the 20-25 year olds. They find it fvcking CHARMY.

---

Another thing I found worked great while I was out clubbing last night is this:
I went up to two ladies, they were both 23 years old if it matters. I asked them (this is a lousy translation to english but use your imagination) "Do you gotta know how to dance in order to join you two here?"
Congratulations rapsta you just opened the ladies up, they said something like "nooo" and something else but I dont remember, and they just smiled.

To make sure that this wasn't an occasional thing, I went up to another pair of two ladies. One of them rejected my friend earlier that night (he told her "show me how you dance" and she was like tsss with a b1tchy look), and I just smiled (she noticed me smiling).
Anyways I went up to these two ladies and i asked them the same thing: "Do you gotta know how to dance in order to join you two here?"
And opened the two of them up too. They accepted me with warmth.

----

Now many of you will probably read this and go like " congratulations rapsta, you are the new Cristopher Columbus, you just invented something "new" "
I'm not totally aware of everyones knowledge level so i thought I'd post a successful tip. Be free to give feedback on what you think about it.
Women enjoy being hit on, we're (guys) not supposed to know because it's their own dirty secret, but they do...that's why you got invited over next to them.

When I dance with hott chicks, I tell them things like "You're the best dancer ever...", etc., to make them feel special.

Personally, I love swing dancing (salsa, mambo, etc.), but I'm a clubber. o_O
 

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it's really hard for me to go because i dont know many ppl thats over 19 (legal age to go clubs) and ppl will think im creepy for going alone :(
 

rapsta

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Originally posted by tom121
it's really hard for me to go because i dont know many ppl thats over 19 (legal age to go clubs) and ppl will think im creepy for going alone :(

creepy for going alone? fvck no man. alone is the way to go if u want chicks. what the hell you need a friend for when picking up? to hold your hand? you don't even need a wingman with the teqnique i posted. go alone and be open minded.. go and talk to people.. say hi and stuff =)
 
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