"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Clubbing Tonight, How To Approach?

wonderer

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I'm going out clubbing tonight and wanted to know how you guys usually approached women, are openers used? direct approaches? indirect? Im usually a confident person.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I just approached them, I did so without knowing what to say. I can assure you that when you've come far enough to walk up to her it will be too embarrassing to walk away, your mind will use all it's strength to avoid it and will do so by giving you something to say. This usually ends in being an indirect approach.

For the direct approaches you should prepare a little. You gotta be prepared for any reaction and feel confident that it won't negatively affect you. So even if she straight down reject you, you must know you can laugh it off and not let it hurt your ego. This is where outcome independence matters most.

What approach you use isn't really that important.
 
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