let me know if any of you guys got some real awsome clubbing tips... sometimes i ask girls to buy me a drink and some of them do buy me a drink... let me know if you know any cool stuff you can do in the club... i can think of a few like grabbing girls in the middle of the dance floor....
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Iamthealphamale had a topic a few weeks ago where he brought up my prefered technique...
That is hitting the streets outside the club. Look it up, there's some cool stuff.
Also.
There is TD post (I think it is in tips) where he talks about "minihits" (I think thats what he calls em).
The basic idea is to open everyone in a night club with a 30 second routine. For example get everyone to give you a high five then move on. Just have fun. You will meet EVERYONE there.
I've seen a similar thing in action and its ****ing powerful.
When I used to be in the club scene we used to all buy heaps of lollies (candy for you yankees) before we went to a club (if you have experience on amphetamines you'll know why).
My friend used to go around giving everyone in the club with the same brand of shoes/ same coloured shirt/ jeans or cargos (depending on what they was wearing), a lolly pop.
Basically this exposed him to every set in the club. By the time we left in the morning he would know everyone in there.
This creates massive social proof. You meet every girl there.
JJ
That is hitting the streets outside the club. Look it up, there's some cool stuff.
Also.
There is TD post (I think it is in tips) where he talks about "minihits" (I think thats what he calls em).
The basic idea is to open everyone in a night club with a 30 second routine. For example get everyone to give you a high five then move on. Just have fun. You will meet EVERYONE there.
I've seen a similar thing in action and its ****ing powerful.
When I used to be in the club scene we used to all buy heaps of lollies (candy for you yankees) before we went to a club (if you have experience on amphetamines you'll know why).
My friend used to go around giving everyone in the club with the same brand of shoes/ same coloured shirt/ jeans or cargos (depending on what they was wearing), a lolly pop.
Basically this exposed him to every set in the club. By the time we left in the morning he would know everyone in there.
This creates massive social proof. You meet every girl there.
JJ
/\maybe its jus cus u dont live in the states, but around here, no one would take you serious if u gave people lollipops like that. youd prolly even reach that one dude who takes everything seriously and hed whoop ur ass or make u look stupid for givin him a piece of candy
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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
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I AM ME... dude that will def work in the US... i was in the club... drinking a drink and this girl came out of nowhere and ask if she can have the rest of my drink ... this girl also offered me lollipops and i took it... she was one of the girls in the club and she had a full bag of them ...
i am me said:
I AM ME... dude that will def work in the US... i was in the club... drinking a drink and this girl came out of nowhere and ask if she can have the rest of my drink ... this girl also offered me lollipops and i took it... she was one of the girls in the club and she had a full bag of them ...
/\girls can do anythin and still get laid as long as theyre hot. a guy doin that mite be weird to some people. i guess it could work if u were a goodlookin dude and u jus needed ANY excuse to talk to a girl but if u were a fat mofo handin out lollipops then people are jus gonna laugh and call u the muffin man or somethin
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Okay, the ritual I've made for clubbing lately:
First, I have a late-night meal (10pm). Healthy stuff, lots of carbohydrates and protein. Then I turn on some good player music. Music about sex, about women, about anything that has to do with the game in the right way. I turn on this music as loud as I can, and dance to it on my own. Helps setting the right mood. With the music on, I also do 30 pushups and 30 situps.
Next thing is to drink some good alcohol before going out. With good alcohol I mean strong, sugarish liquor. I prefer this over drinking beer from the get-go, to avoid the crappy "I drank too much beer" feeling later on in the night. It also saves money
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Then I go out, always together with friends. Entrance into the club is important, so I make sure the friends I enter with have energy and presence and that we're all having a good time when entering.
However, I am always the leader. They follow me, even when there's other alpha males there, I'm the one who takes all the initiative.
I like to smile and just stand still for a little while in the beginning, checking out the room and all the people in there in a totally comfortable and relaxed manner. As time progresses, I start dancing a little more and bring the energy up even more. I make sure all my friends are having a good time.
At this point, I'm in party mode and we go for the girls.
Either by dancing, talking, whatever. Just approach the girls you like with the vibe you've created and all the girls will notice you and like it instantly.
Make sure that during the whole night of clubbing, you've got a smile on your face and that you look and feel confident.
Setting the mood and being prepared is absolutely one of the important elements of clubbing. Helps like crazy when going for girls.
First, I have a late-night meal (10pm). Healthy stuff, lots of carbohydrates and protein. Then I turn on some good player music. Music about sex, about women, about anything that has to do with the game in the right way. I turn on this music as loud as I can, and dance to it on my own. Helps setting the right mood. With the music on, I also do 30 pushups and 30 situps.
Next thing is to drink some good alcohol before going out. With good alcohol I mean strong, sugarish liquor. I prefer this over drinking beer from the get-go, to avoid the crappy "I drank too much beer" feeling later on in the night. It also saves money
.Then I go out, always together with friends. Entrance into the club is important, so I make sure the friends I enter with have energy and presence and that we're all having a good time when entering.
However, I am always the leader. They follow me, even when there's other alpha males there, I'm the one who takes all the initiative.
I like to smile and just stand still for a little while in the beginning, checking out the room and all the people in there in a totally comfortable and relaxed manner. As time progresses, I start dancing a little more and bring the energy up even more. I make sure all my friends are having a good time.
At this point, I'm in party mode and we go for the girls.
Either by dancing, talking, whatever. Just approach the girls you like with the vibe you've created and all the girls will notice you and like it instantly.
Make sure that during the whole night of clubbing, you've got a smile on your face and that you look and feel confident.
Setting the mood and being prepared is absolutely one of the important elements of clubbing. Helps like crazy when going for girls.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.