"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Clubbing: Retro or No?

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This weekend I'm going to my first club. Yeah, its an underage club, but hey its the best I have where I live.

I was thinking of going with the Retro look, 80s. I had in mind a dark suit jacket with an 80s band tee underneath.

Question: Is Retro going to fly at the club?

Also, what other retro style apparel could I wear?

Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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undesputable

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nah man get some modern clothes. The 80s is the 80s were in 2005 now.
 

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You'll sweat youre ass off unless its a "formal" or "classy" club with airconditioning - and teen clubs never are.

Whatever you do, dont wear a white dress shirt with jeans, untucked - EVERYONE does this, it looks ridiculous.

Wear something that grabs attention... something different. A blazer is an ok idea, ONLY IF IT IS MADE FOR HOT WEATHER (so it breaths and sweat doesnt ruin it).
 

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Hit up Mexx!!!

They have great stuff!
Got a great shirt... $90... got soooo many compliments from girls... almost couldn't believe it!
 

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Originally posted by Bussey
Hit up Mexx!!!

They have great stuff!
Got a great shirt... $90... got soooo many compliments from girls... almost couldn't believe it!
90$ is about 75$ too much for a shirt.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Not true. There is no "too much" to spend on clothes... but make sure you get quality worth your dollar. Nevery pray full price for clothes... just wait and buy off season stuff for 30-50% off. Patience is a virtue.
 

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Personally, I would wear modern clothes.
 

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Originally posted by Bussey
Hit up Mexx!!!

They have great stuff!
Got a great shirt... $90... got soooo many compliments from girls... almost couldn't believe it!
I got a lot of compliment for buying a $10 shirt from JCPenney too
 

Bussey

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O snap... I thought $90 was cheap... It is for what I sometimes spend on clothing.

I get cheap stuff at American Eagle.. considering I work there.

But I once paid $300 for a shirt haha. Whatever, its all in what you like. Personally if I like the shirt, price doesnt matter.
 

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Damn you rich boy!!:cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lmao..u guys pay wayyyy too much IMO. Shop at a a discount store like winners were they sell the exact same stuff for cheaper prices. Don't ask me why it is cheaper, it just is. I got some Sean John shirts, ****ies pants, Jordan zip-up shirt, adidas jumper and countless other things all for cheaper. Nothing has ripped or fallen apart so far. I've gotten button ups and dressy pants too, so to say that it is only good for one fashion is a misconception too.
 

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I just found a vintage black "ALF" t-shirt...do you think if I wore that to the club under the suit jacket, people would see it as a sense of humor, or just senseless?

Like I said, I've never been to a club before. I wanted to wear something that everyone else wasn't.
 
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