clubbing questions

[unreal-guy]

so last night i went to an after hours club. i've had been there many times and i enjoy dancing to the hard bass sounds of trance and meeting other fellows that i've met there

last night while under vitamin "e," i have met many FINE FINE asian/white women, although some of them have bf (even one bf was shouting at his gf for talking to me LoL)

anyway i have said some stupid things like "do you mind if i ask you how old are you?" but they all didn't put off by that and tells me the age or even let me guess (which i tend to guess way off or just really close) then i'd let them guess my age (im 21) but most of them guess from 20 to 25 age

so... here are my questions

1) when a girl approach the dance floor and immediately start dancing in front of me, she'd turn around every moment looking at me, but still dancing and i think she was trying to get my attention and this has happened many times and yet i haven't even attempt to ask for a dance

so what is the best way to find out if she's interested? it would be weird if i tap her in the shoulder and ask for a dance because she doesn't know me and it's really hard to have decent conversation because of loud music

2) as i was dancing, i'd often see a lot girls looking directly at me, some of them smile, some of them just gives me a straight look... say if they smiled at me, should i wave at her first? if she respond back then i can approach her?

3) i remember one time as i was dancing, there was this hot older asian woman with sweet body and blonde hair standing next to me. i think she was really digging me, she used a cardboard and fanning herself, her hair hit me in the face and i was like "wtf?"... did she ment to do that? there was a lot of space beside her and i was dancing with my friends

 

[Chemistry]

LOL...

You need to cut that age BS out of your routine... its lame

You want to know what you should do? If there's a girl you want to dance with in a loud club or bar who appears to be showing interest in you, then you just need to dance over to her... if she's dancing in front of you, then just dance up behind her because that's usually what she's prompting... if you see a nice chick smiling at you, confidently walk over to her and start dancing with her... the talking is done later after a couple of good dances when you stop by the bar, or take a seat for a breather

Lastly, don't read anything into the Asian woman thing.. but if you liked her why don't you ask her to dance? That's the only way you'll ever really know. Worst thing that happens you get a rejection, you're just thinking too much.

 

[unreal-guy]

what's the best way to find out her age though, because it's really hard to tell from looks... if it's lame why would they still answer it and did not looked put off when i asked.

hahah consider i'm asian myself i pefer my own kind

 

[Hurrican]

don't ask about age. I usually find chicks that are older then me so its best if I don't ask.

Also rave clubs are not a good way to hook up with girls. THey are just their to dance on xtc. Its a nice place to get new friends or roll if the music is good but not a place to meet chicks. Go to rap clubs, the girls their are way more sluttier and sexier.

 

[Nexxus]

1) go dance with, don't "tap her shoulder and ask to dance" that's insecure, which you seem to be

2) if you see a girl looking at you and you are interested in her, go to her and either start dancing wit her or take her somewhere more quiet to talk

3) ok.... too much thinking, who cares about that

I'm just depressed I didn't get any last night since I was in such a good mood

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quote hurrican
don't ask about age. I usually find chicks that are older then me so its best if I don't ask.

Also rave clubs are not a good way to hook up with girls. THey are just their to dance on xtc. Its a nice place to get new friends or roll if the music is good but not a place to meet chicks. Go to rap clubs, the girls their are way more sluttier and sexier
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agreed

 

[[S]alvatore]

1) when a girl approach the dance floor and immediately start dancing in front of me, she'd turn around every moment looking at me, but still dancing and i think she was trying to get my attention and this has happened many times and yet i haven't even attempt to ask for a dance

so what is the best way to find out if she's interested? it would be weird if i tap her in the shoulder and ask for a dance because she doesn't know me and it's really hard to have decent conversation because of loud music

2) as i was dancing, i'd often see a lot girls looking directly at me, some of them smile, some of them just gives me a straight look... say if they smiled at me, should i wave at her first? if she respond back then i can approach her?

3) i remember one time as i was dancing, there was this hot older asian woman with sweet body and blonde hair standing next to me. i think she was really digging me, she used a cardboard and fanning herself, her hair hit me in the face and i was like "wtf?"... did she ment to do that? there was a lot of space beside her and i was dancing with my friends

1. She was interested, you should've just danced with her. No need to ask permission, you're not 5 years old nor is she your mother.

2. The ones that smile are interested, go up and start dancing with them/start conversation.

Seriously grab your balls and just do it.

 

[unreal-guy]

well from my experience, i have to get to know these women through friends

just last week as i was drunk and having a good time, two girls (whom i've seen/checked out before) came dancing near me, while peeking at me every 30 sec or so lol.... i didn't talk to her though, i was too busy dancing