"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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clubbing help needed

g g g unit

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on friday me n my mates plan to go down the clubs in our home town to go on the pull and were sorta at a problem. we need to look 2 years older so we can get it any help on that?? and another thing i have no idea what to wear ive read the dj bible post and im still stuck i was thinking of wearing a long sleeved tee, jeans and trainers yes or no ??


thanks in advance!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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read them both before dont help my cause im afraid what about peoples past experiences at clubs?
 

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that can get sorted but still what do i wear there??
 

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depends on the bouncer
if the club has more than one door to get into , you should go to the door that has less traffic

find out how much it is before you get there
regulars know how much it is to get in so find out
dont have the cash in your hand, but have the cash ready in your pocket... example if its five dollars = take a five.
the less time you are there in line the better for your chances.
look around while you are paying because you are going to have to do a ploy attempt to make him think you already have friends in there and you are looking for them.
if the bouncer has a name tag on, dont stare at it but call him by his name like this " hey andy long time no see. what band is playing tonite ?"
if you are afraid of sounding young just say "sup"
take an extra 20 just in case. if the bouncer figures out you are nto the age your fake id says, offer the 20. what can he do kick you out?

anyhow thats the best i got for you.
its easier to fake your way in when you are a chick. but i had a bouncer buddy named andy who let everyone in for 20 bucks hahaha
 

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rofl! great and comical advice! another thing what clothes make you look older cos my m8 said that if u go dressd smart (shirt etc) the bouncer will see right through your act and you mayaswell go casually but im still stuck in a dillema of what to wear!!!!!!
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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why dont you drive by the place and see what dudes are wearing

then go home and get dressed.
 

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Hey, I was never able to get in clubs, and I would grow a beard and hope that I would get in. Didn't work. I'm 18, turning 19 very soon anyways!

BUT, what I used to do and still do now is street sarging! Go downtown at night and open sets on the street. There are TONS of sets walking up and down the streets, club bouncing or whatever. Sometimes my older friends PREFER this over being inside the actual club itself.
 

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Go with girls if the bouncer see's ya with a group of hotties he will not kick you out for fear that the girls are with you an will not enter. Also clubs always try to have a high ratio of girls to guys to eliminate sausage fest. So meet up with a pack of hotties an talk 2 em an walk in with them good luck.
 

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great help guys! thanks. any more where that came from?
 
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