XxprodigyxX
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im taking this girl out who likes to go dancing. Do you think its a good idea to take her clubbing for a date?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
clubbing for a date
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
LittleBigOne
Don Juan
I don't think so. If you are serious you should do something active, somewhere where are no people who can interrupt your date (like friends from her or drunk lads who wants to fight etc.). Maybe its fun to visit a fair or a themeparc with her... And do no Dinners! And let her buy you a drink!
No excuse for my English
LittleBigOne
No excuse for my English
LittleBigOne
Sure. Take her to a salsa club. The atmosphere in those places is much less intimidating. You'll be her dancing partner with plenty of physical contact involved.
+ in a bar/club there will be alcohol which does wonders.
+ in a bar/club there will be alcohol which does wonders.
MightyMate
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Id never take girl for a date to club.
Uro.Essence
Don Juan
Like Fash said If she said she liked dancing take her to a salsa club or even one of those walk-in salsa lesson shops, it will create a bond with you two and she will see you are interested in her interests and you were listening.
As for the club idea I say take her to a salsa lesson place and if afterwards she says lets go to a club then go for it but don't just take her there, because the atmosphere isn't right for 2nd date status.
If you do want to show her you like to party and dance maybe one time just randomly call her up say you and some friends are at club whatever and ask her to come out with her friends. That way she doesnt see it as a date so there is no atmosphere to be ruined and when she comes she will automatically come to you and start dancing also working as somewhat of a pivot next time you go to the club without her. All the girls will have seen how excited that girl was to dance with you and they will think you have something every other guy doesnt and also flock to you for the night.
Uro.
As for the club idea I say take her to a salsa lesson place and if afterwards she says lets go to a club then go for it but don't just take her there, because the atmosphere isn't right for 2nd date status.
If you do want to show her you like to party and dance maybe one time just randomly call her up say you and some friends are at club whatever and ask her to come out with her friends. That way she doesnt see it as a date so there is no atmosphere to be ruined and when she comes she will automatically come to you and start dancing also working as somewhat of a pivot next time you go to the club without her. All the girls will have seen how excited that girl was to dance with you and they will think you have something every other guy doesnt and also flock to you for the night.
Uro.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.