Clubbing Expert Tips. Time to rock the Club.

[Oxide]

Here ya go, a thread for guys who actually know how to work their game at a club.

I will start by giving some tips taken from my club report.

First- dont assumer first impression is the last impression. (this applies not only to clubs). Today i started talking to a girl and she acted a little dumb, so i walked away. Later on i decided to give her another chance so i sdtarted talking to her again. After a minute we were shaking it on the dancefloor. I got her number in my cell. If u have high IL in a chick, try her one more time, if she flakes, let her go.


Second - Dont be afraid to take matter into your hands when dancing. Do turn girls around (facing their backs or fronts), Do change the direction of the grind, DO SUGGEST stuff. I danced with a girl today who said it was her first time clubbing , so she was moving rather slow and sensual...nothing wrong with it IF IT WASNT a fast "in da club" playing. AFter a minute i decided i wanted better so i said "Lets try this, and made her move her but just a bit up, she started moving her butt up and down bit by bit and then i threw a little "Change directions suddenly, works great!" and in no time i had a boner. I told her she was getting me excited, i like that

AND NEVER TAKE CRAP SERIOSLY FROM CLUBBING Attention Ho's.
me and my friend walked by a car with 2 cute girls, so we stopped by to talk. The girl wouldnt let her window down , so i asked "are u that afraid of boys?"

This is where miss smartass goes "NO, i dont want nerds coming to talk to me" ..... so i respond
"Well, lucky for you there are no nerds here" and we walked away without a trouble.

Ok, now i need some club exprets to give me some tips.
Grinding - When i grind with a girl, she usually starts moving and we try to tune into each other's movements. BUT i want to improvise since i find the idea of rocking back'n' forth all song quite boring. The moves i do "Butt rotation" , this is where a girl and you with your **** close to her rotate your butts in a circle,quite a great move.

Another move is "waterfall" this is where she starts grinding her butt up and down on you. she can go fast up and slow on the way down, or opposite. Bonners guranteed!

This move "rocky" works with chicks who can handle it. You basically **** her through the clothes. so u start moving back n forth slamming your penis into her ass. if she digs this she will be glad.

I use this move right after i whisper "lets get down" into the girl's ear. You start at her hips and move your hands down to her ankles, bending your knees and getting lower to the ground with her. If matched to a good song this looks great.

LET YOUR HANDS WONDER. this is a great thing to use if u want to show her you want her and you are not a boring dancer. I usually go from hips up to sides and up to the shoudlers, then i let my hands slide down her arms and back ont he hips, or Inner thigh, which is a GREAT place to let your hands wonder.
TOday i did this to a girl, and she responded by touching my neck and going to my hair, feeling my head and the rest of my body. what can i say , i love girls who know how to dance

What grinding techniques do you guys use? Share the wealth and lets get the party going!

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

One technique I use that works like a charm is what I call the "taste test". This move requires you to move down on the girl and once you two make eye contact, you take your finger and dip it(like a cake bowl or whatever) and lick your finger and then say MMMMMMMMMMMMMMM.

Try it and watch how the woman loves it.

Also you could try "vibrating" your pelvic area but only real dancers can do this.

 

[Oxide]

Good tip, along the lines of PSSSSSTTt one :d

do u physiaclly touch the girl, what part of the body do u dip?

About moving your hands. Dont be afraid to put a hand on her tummy, it's a good spot to hold a girl by.

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

Originally posted by Oxide
Good tip, along the lines of PSSSSSTTt one :d

do u physiaclly touch the girl, what part of the body do u dip?

About moving your hands. Dont be afraid to put a hand on her tummy, it's a good spot to hold a girl by.

This is different from the PSSSST one because you act like your dipping your finger vertically across her pvssy and then lick it.

Just make sure she looking at you when you do it and other females will see it and smile.

 

[Oxide]

Holly **** this tip was just moved from good to great. I didnt think about pvssy dipping. Man this can do wonders. Mmmmmm

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

Remember:

Don't touch it but make it seem like you are.

 

[Oxide]

A tip to make your friends realize you are the ****, and the girls relaize it too. Find the hottest girl in the club, preferrably on stage. Walk up and say "Lets see what u got " and groove with her. People will see that and gain respect for you. Field tested countless times.

 

[backbreaker]

best tip I have read so far. Have to try that.

I am a pretty dancer, so at times, I actually let girls grind ME, which is pretty fun.

A couple of other tips:

Girls hate it when you just come up to them and dance with them. This is what I do. Nothing fancy, but I won't dance with anyone I haven't established eye contact with. Once I get the eyes, I smile and point directly in front of me as to tell them "get here right now". All takes a total of 3 seconds.


Let your hands go, but be careful, I used to have a bad habit of offending girls by putting my hands on their ass as soon as I started dancing. First show that you can actually dance and dance with them, when you start to get closer, put your hands on her WAIST, not her HIPS, big difference. Then let your hands slowly go down to her ass if that is what you want.

 

[undesputable]

Originally posted by Oxide

This is where miss smartass goes "NO, i dont want nerds coming to talk to me" ..... so i respond
"Well, lucky for you there are no nerds here" and we walked away without a trouble.

great tips, great post, great thread....and i dont mean to hijack the thread but i hate when girls say **** like that, and thats what i would say too, but theres got to be a better way to deal with that stuff....

maybe sometimes like 50% of the time theyre just testing you and see what you do when they say that, and the other 50% theyre just not worth it....

so wouldnt it be better to say "Well, lucky for you there are no nerds here" and stay instead of walking away.... or say something like "yea me either, but ill give you a chance", or "what you dont talk to ppl your own kind?"

i dont know i feel like there has to be a better way to deal with that situation, either way i just stay with girls i meet for only like 5 minutes and move on wether it goes right or wrong....

 

[JT47319]

I'll refrain from making any dancing tips since I only dance for fun and don't use it to pick up. Rather, my best friend who is a professional hiphop dancer can pull one or two moves (none of it involving grinding) and it gives him instant higher social status than the girls (because it's a hard, professional dance move that LOOKS effortless and graceful) and usually he throws in something sensual, but not over the top (like caressing the target's hair). At that point, it's mini-venue change in the club to somewhere off the floor so you can implement VERBAL GAME

Tonality:
Projection - You must train your voice to cut through the music so she can hear you.
Sexuality - When isolated, you must PHASE SHIFT into a sexual state and pull her into you. Slow tonality, whisper into her ear, etc.

Body Language:
Indirect - Be comfortable with being indifferent to girls
Direct - Be comfortable with being sexually direct to girls
Triangular Gazing - When phase shifted, triangular gaze like you are going to kiss her.
Drinks - Hold you drink in your left hand and DOWN. Do not hold the drink in front of you, it is a nervous and defensive body gesture that 99% of the other AFCs in the club are doing.
Space - Take up A LOT OF SPACE. Take up the entire chair when sitting. When standing, take up lots of leg room.
Facial Expressions - Have them. Smile, frown, wriggle your eyebrows, be expressive.

Kino:
Kiss - At some point, you'll want to do this. Various techniques like Tic Tac Kiss & BadBoy Kiss can be used if you're hesitant to just dive in.
Push away - Don't be the CLUB MAKEOUT GUY. Girls do this all the time to guys and wake up the next morning have erased the experience from their memory. Rather, push away when making it, showing her that YOU aren't a slut.

Random:
Booty Bump - Bump her with your ass
Play Fight - If it gets crowded act like you two are going to get into a fight

Style:
You must appear unique AND congruent with your style. Do not appear generic, do not shop at Abercrombie, Gap, Banana Republic, etc. for club clothes.

Venue Change:
Mini - Grab the girl and go ANYWHERE. It's like a mini-date. Go from the dance floor, to the bar, to the couch and back to the dance floor. LEAD HER. Don't ask her.
Full - Leave the establishment and go to the car. Go to a diner. Go home.

 

[Oxide]

JT47319, thanks for input, but most of the things on your list are way too complicated for me Badboy kiss? triangular gaze? haha, whatever works for you

One thing that did get me interested tho, about holding your drink down to the left, about how low do you hold it? I've always held my cup in the right hand (easier to drink) and between bellybutton and my chest. YOu could see it as a barrier, but then again, you can just put the glass down when you are ready to rock


edit: Jt, it would be kick ass if you could describe the moves your friend does, or make him write what those moves are. I have a cool move i saw off Mtv's dancing show, i use it time from time, girs just stare with "whoa".

 

[Player_Supreme]

And let me add some eye contact shyt to this mix:



When you do the eye contact game there are 3 areas that you need to train in:

1. Scanning the environment that your in.

In each environment there are only a small percentage of women who will give up the P*ssy to you that night. About 20% of them will give you a number if you spit game at em. So you need to develop your ability to spot that small percentage of 1% who will bone you right then and there.

You need to be constantly scanning all the women around you for :

Eye contact. Notice who is noticing you. These are the ones you want to approach. Why chase after a ho who isn't even diggin you? You waste your valuable playa time chasing after a ho.

Chase a ho and get a chumps cop...stalk a ho and get a pimps cop.

2. Pick out the ho's who are checking You out.

3. Do the eye contact game on your targets. And study her ass (stalking). Check for other signs of interest.

 

[Air Max]

Moves

A see some nice moves on this thread, a just wanted to add to it. Dancing to a heavy beat, big bass, go matrix style, its hard like the limbo, but on the spot. keep you feet planted normally and lean back, just do what Keanu Reaves does, wave your arms back and make it seem like your dodging the bullets. Just keep your balance and don't fall back, so practice! If you get it right, people start noticing.

 

[AMF]

Re: Moves

Originally posted by Air Max
keep you feet planted normally and lean back, just do what Keanu Reaves does, wave your arms back and make it seem like your dodging the bullets. Just keep your balance and don't fall back, so practice! If you get it right, people start noticing.

My sides hurt from laughing!

LOL

 

[Air Max]

Lol, hey man, a know it sounds like shyt, but try it.

 

[PeeGee]

LOL I don't know about 'matrix style', but the club I go to has a/c vents on the ceilings. What I like to do is limbo/bullet dodge matrix style until I'm horizontal. Then I close my eyes and enjoy the air.

Doing it on the dance floor while people are dancing is just inviting a smack. God help you if you lose your balance and look like a fool though.

BTW if you want to do some dance move to a girl, why not just take the lead? Grab her by the waist or whatever and rotate your hips together. Whatever your fancy.

 

[Alen-Delon]

goddamn mothafakas ..... most of you guys are fuking rookies in club experiance.... i recmoend you take free salsa or spanish dance lessons for couple of month... theres nothing better then dancing with girl..... not rubbing or getting a bonner or beeing a fuking chump by trying to rub her aZZ and stupid shyt like that... that wont get you anywhere..... that wont get a girl horny.... you gotta feel women to make em horny.... always dance in fornt of the women... you cab get behind for couple of seconds but thats a disaster... why? because she distracted by too much shyt thats happening on the dance floor.... when you in fron of her she concentrates on you.... try to breath on her neck near her year .... dont go licking her neck right away and shyt give it a lil smooch first see how she responds dont go grabing her azz either.... instead massage her back with your fingers and neck like your having sex get her as horny as possible then pull some fly moves on her... dress to impress not like a white fuking trash with abercrombie t shirt and ****... wear nice black shoes with nice pants and a shirt .... no t-shirt bull shyt pls.... look like a man not like fuking joke.... if she stays with you for at least 3 dances... shes already yours then its up to you to get her in to your sack... which is another part of the game ... i am not gonna talk abot right now.... but on thing to keep in mind is... BE FUKING ORIGINAL>>>>>>>>>>>>>>


peace !! playaz

 

[Eternal]

Different things work for different age groups. Older people are more tempted to "just dance" while younger people are out there to get thier freak on!

 

[aBAzLLnA]

Originally posted by Alen-Delon
goddamn mothafakas ..... most of you guys are fuking rookies in club experiance.... i recmoend you take free salsa or spanish dance lessons for couple of month... theres nothing better then dancing with girl..... not rubbing or getting a bonner or beeing a fuking chump by trying to rub her aZZ and stupid shyt like that... that wont get you anywhere..... that wont get a girl horny.... you gotta feel women to make em horny.... always dance in fornt of the women... you cab get behind for couple of seconds but thats a disaster... why? because she distracted by too much shyt thats happening on the dance floor.... when you in fron of her she concentrates on you.... try to breath on her neck near her year .... dont go licking her neck right away and shyt give it a lil smooch first see how she responds dont go grabing her azz either.... instead massage her back with your fingers and neck like your having sex get her as horny as possible then pull some fly moves on her... dress to impress not like a white fuking trash with abercrombie t shirt and ****... wear nice black shoes with nice pants and a shirt .... no t-shirt bull shyt pls.... look like a man not like fuking joke.... if she stays with you for at least 3 dances... shes already yours then its up to you to get her in to your sack... which is another part of the game ... i am not gonna talk abot right now.... but on thing to keep in mind is... BE FUKING ORIGINAL>>>>>>>>>>>>>>


peace !! playaz

Bro, to each man his own. And learn to spell...that is if you want people to read your post, and respect you lol

~ivan

 

[Alen-Delon]

i am not your fuking bro... and dont you worry about my spelling and grammar... go wipe your smart AS$