Clubbing alone?

[Febreze]

I know this has been brought up before, but the search function is not working and i have a friend right here with me who does not believe a word i say about going to clubs solo and i would love for you guys to tell him how it is.
his names Mike. He says hes gone to the same club alone for a while. He says hes probably gone with someone 5 times, and gone alone about 30. He is freaked out by what people perceptions might be, and he wants to know what one is supposed to do alone in the club. Or if one should even go at all alone.

Hopefully he listens to you guys. thanks.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Whenever I would go into the club/pub/bar alone, I'd almost always have women open me, touch me, talk to me, at the bar or while standing, even though, some of them HAD to have known I was alone. I think I'm approachable because I've been told that I look like a movie star, and they may or may not think that I'm just passing through town and really AM some star they can't put their finger on or don't know about yet.

I'm a local star. I put on a show locally and statewide daily. My being "on stage" and in the spotlight is routine for me, and it shows.

 

[Ganondorf]

I don't think it would be too obvious unless you made it seem that way. people in a club could care less about who you came with

Just relax and have fun. Make friends there

I read somewhere, and i like the idea, that when you go in, just go around High fiving a bunch of people. then BOOM, instant social proof and it looks like you have friends. When in reality your just a fun guy who can make the most out of anything, and doesn't need his posse to have fun at the club

 

[King Turi]

When I go out solo stylez, I always get people coming up to me and talking to me, hitting on me, whatever.

I'm not entirely sure why, but I think it's because I might seem more available to talk to, like I'm not busy or anything.

Seriously you can go out and just sit there, not even dance, and as long as you're just chilling out and not feeling awkward, someone's probably gonna come up and talk to you.
Just gotta give off the right vibes.

There's a big difference between one person sitting there awkwardly, not really enjoying the music or whatever, than someone who is sitting there just chillin' out.

 

[Taviii]

I don't think it would be too obvious unless you made it seem that way. people in a club could care less about who you came with

Just relax and have fun. Make friends there

I read somewhere, and i like the idea, that when you go in, just go around High fiving a bunch of people. then BOOM, instant social proof and it looks like you have friends. When in reality your just a fun guy who can make the most out of anything, and doesn't need his posse to have fun at the club

Relapse high five

 

[Mando]

Never been to a club alone, although I'd imagine it wouldn't be much of a difference. I DO notice actually that when I'm alone I get approached more, like King Turi said, it makes you look less busy so I guess they don't feel as intrusive for opening? Idk haha. Either way works, just be cool.

 

[Killer_Demo]

i have been to the club a few times by myself and gotten action but i PREFER going with friends. If you go by yourself just keep a relaxed posture and always be moving around the club not staying in just 1 spot. look nice and good things will happen