"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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clubbing after 25

GamePlan

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I'll try to sum it up briefly: I'm 25 and most my friends don't really go out that much anymore. I guess it has to do with them and somewhat with the fact that we don't live in a big city with lots of nightlife (and even less nightlife geared towards people over 25).

Anyway, I assume if you're in the right city (a big city with enough nightlife, I guess) there are still countless opportunities to go clubbing for guys in their late 20's/early 30's right?
Actually, I plan on moving to another city with more stuff to do/more nightlife after college..either within Germany or to an English-speaking country.

I assume Im not the only one who has that problem with friends not really willing to go clubbing anymore. Who do you guys go clubbing with?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Aenigma

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GamePlan said:
I'll try to sum it up briefly: I'm 25 and most my friends don't really go out that much anymore. I guess it has to do with them and somewhat with the fact that we don't live in a big city with lots of nightlife (and even less nightlife geared towards people over 25).

Anyway, I assume if you're in the right city (a big city with enough nightlife, I guess) there are still countless opportunities to go clubbing for guys in their late 20's/early 30's right?
Actually, I plan on moving to another city with more stuff to do/more nightlife after college..either within Germany or to an English-speaking country.

I assume Im not the only one who has that problem with friends not really willing to go clubbing anymore. Who do you guys go clubbing with?
My friends who enjoy going clubbing. If they're not available I just fly solo (or at least I use to anyway.....)

If you don't have friends who enjoy going out, then make some.
 

Warrior74

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i go occasionally with friends. Most of my friends are married with kids and mortgages. I'll go by myself and pull something every now and then. Don't be afraid to go alone and make friends while your out. That takes real balls most men don't have.
 

goodfoot

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I usually go out alone and just meet people. My friends can't keep up with me. I go out basically every Friday and Saturday.
 

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