"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This has happened a few times in my life, and it happened again last night.
Meet a girl at a bar, talking for a bit, suddenly we're making out. Easy peasy.
Then we sort of separate while I go back to my mate and scope out the rest of the joint. Look around and there's the girl.. making out with another bloke!
She would have kissed at least 4 other blokes that I saw. We hit on a few other chicks, got some numbers and then decided to leave. Then I just bumped into the first chick as I was leaving and she's all over me again and gave me her number . WTF?
So my question is, it's easy to just say she's a tart and get over it, which is my first thoughts... but seeing that she seems easy, and is really hot, would you try and follow it up for a casual bone? And how. seeing that she probably wouldn't have any idea who I am? :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So what exactly are you worried about?

Come on brother. You already know what you want to and need to do in this case. Lube up first though.
 
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Sorry, I should have posted this in Discussion not Tips.. can someone please move?

No, I just know that when I call, she's going to not know who I am.. what's the way of saying "I'm the ruggedly handsome bloke you ditched to pick up other blokes" in a way that says "I don't give a **** just lets meet and have sex"
 
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Hi, I'm easylover, we met at the bar, would you like to come over for drinks?
 
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You seem inexperienced with the scene.

A make out means nothing to these girls. Don't make the mistake of thinking that she wants to sleep with you because of this. Girls like this make out with hundreds of guys or even girls per year.

It's not like you have anything to lose, but don't have any expectations.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LeComteDeMonteCristo said:
You seem inexperienced with the scene.

A make out means nothing to these girls. Don't make the mistake of thinking that she wants to sleep with you because of this. Girls like this make out with hundreds of guys or even girls per year.

It's not like you have anything to lose, but don't have any expectations.
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Yes, getting a makeout is way easier than getting the girl back to the bedroom.

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Daddy The Pimp

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LeComteDeMonteCristo said:
You seem inexperienced with the scene.

A make out means nothing to these girls. Don't make the mistake of thinking that she wants to sleep with you because of this. Girls like this make out with hundreds of guys or even girls per year.

It's not like you have anything to lose, but don't have any expectations.
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Yea but he can give it a shot . Why not . Just for practice .
 
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go for it ;) nothing to loose but dont forget to use condoms

btw haha you kissed indirectly another duude :D (just kidding)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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....what's a tart? Is that slang for something?
 
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j0n024 said:
....what's a tart? Is that slang for something?
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Tart means like Hussy or something in british slang.

If a chic is drunk in a club and she's not your girlfriend there's no reason to assume that she's going to be "faithful" to you the moment you leave her side after making out. You'd do the same thing if the opportunity arose in that same club atmosphere. So she liked you and came back to you later, doesn't mean she's not going to shop around. We are talking about young people being young after all.

Anyway if you want to pursue go for it. If she's hot and you can get some, why say no? If it turns out you don't like her that much then cut her loose or just go into it with the ONS in mind and ignore her calls after you've done the deed. This is what being young is about.
 
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easylover said:
Meet a girl at a bar, talking for a bit, suddenly we're making out. Easy peasy.
Then we sort of separate while I go back to my mate and scope out the rest of the joint. Look around and there's the girl.. making out with another bloke!
She would have kissed at least 4 other blokes that I saw. We hit on a few other chicks, got some numbers and then decided to leave. Then I just bumped into the first chick as I was leaving and she's all over me again and gave me her number . WTF?
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I don't get it. You are complaining you made out with a hot chick?
 
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