"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lost1

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Lately since I've turned 21 I have been going to bars because it's been only a month since I turned 21. I have noticed that there is alot of girls that like to give the run around at the club. I mean after I get her number and attempt to line up another meeting (preferably not at a club). I dunno if its just me but I have gotten no where with a girl I've met at the club. Would it be because they meet soo many men at the bar or just my lack of skills?

I was just wondering to myself how many times has this chick given out her number tonight? How many times does she party a week? Am I just for tonight or is she really giving me her number wanting to really talk to me again?

So In essance I am just looking for anyone elses input or what is the deal with this type of girl? Anyone ever had this problem where the girl totally seems interested in hanging later and it never happens? Seems a bit odd.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sapphire

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It is not you. Women you meet at night clubs, particularly the ones that go frequently, are your typical AW sluts who give out their numbers almost randomly. If a girl at a club gives you her number, chances are that she has given it out to many other guys. The same thing if you fyck her, she also probably fycked many other guys. Girls you meet at bars in my opinion are only good for one thing. So don't venture inside a bar or night club hoping to meet your future wife. Go there to have fun and don't get attached to any girl. If one flakes, just laugh it off and hit on the next one that catches your eye.
 

blinkwatt

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Getting girls numbers are a dime a dozen. You may get alot of them but its the two out of the 12 that you will get somewhere with. Just my two cents.
 
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