"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lately since I've turned 21 I have been going to bars because it's been only a month since I turned 21. I have noticed that there is alot of girls that like to give the run around at the club. I mean after I get her number and attempt to line up another meeting (preferably not at a club). I dunno if its just me but I have gotten no where with a girl I've met at the club. Would it be because they meet soo many men at the bar or just my lack of skills?

I was just wondering to myself how many times has this chick given out her number tonight? How many times does she party a week? Am I just for tonight or is she really giving me her number wanting to really talk to me again?

So In essance I am just looking for anyone elses input or what is the deal with this type of girl? Anyone ever had this problem where the girl totally seems interested in hanging later and it never happens? Seems a bit odd.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It is not you. Women you meet at night clubs, particularly the ones that go frequently, are your typical AW sluts who give out their numbers almost randomly. If a girl at a club gives you her number, chances are that she has given it out to many other guys. The same thing if you fyck her, she also probably fycked many other guys. Girls you meet at bars in my opinion are only good for one thing. So don't venture inside a bar or night club hoping to meet your future wife. Go there to have fun and don't get attached to any girl. If one flakes, just laugh it off and hit on the next one that catches your eye.
 
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Getting girls numbers are a dime a dozen. You may get alot of them but its the two out of the 12 that you will get somewhere with. Just my two cents.
 
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