"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nosmirk

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let's make this brief. im still barely sober, just got back. damn head is pounding.

2 girls: 7.0, 7.0

first 7.0:
started dancing next to 7.0 and her friend ( some damn butch). grinded like mad, loads of body contact. lead her away to smoke, then talked a bit. did not bother getting her number.

second 7.0:
dancing, approached her from the front. she CAME towards me, pressed me towards her. grinded, felt her up. her hands were running up my chest and back.
turned her around. she pressed her butt into me, started to dry hump. i reached into her pants and fingered her :D, while she leaned back on my shoulder and moaned. WHILE STILL DANCING. made out a bit then she nibbled my neck. i left at the start of the next song, did not ask for her number.

overall:
not sure if getting numbers count for anything. i definately dont want a LTR with any of them. maybe should get numbers next time for fck buddies?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ice.

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Based on experience, the chances of getting them out for another night out are slim, possibly because of buyer's remorse kicking in after they get home. Coz who knows, she's probably just as drunk as you were.

Just from my own personal experience, with chicks like this you "meet" at the club, you better be fvcking em on the first night or be content with not fvcking them at all...

You never know though. You can try getting their #s while letting them know that it's strictly for FUBU reasons. Do not get into BF frames, whatever you do.

Mad props though; that's definitely somethin to write home about, for me at least :D
 

Charm

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I agree with Ice mostly. If you develop some good rapport, you can take them out. I know because i've done it several times. Talk for a good 10 minutes or dance a few songs and if the IL is high, get her number. If taking her home is not possible that night, tell her you'd like to do something exciting with her later in the week and youll call her with the plans.
 

Cod3r

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Just from my own personal experience, with chicks like this you "meet" at the club, you better be fvcking em on the first night or be content with not fvcking them at all...
9/10 that's the case, almost enough to be a rule...

Here's what I used to do. If its a club you frequent and you see the same girl there again, just assume attraction and continue the sarge. Number are useless in the club IMO, get what you can as fast as you can..


-Cod3r
 

Jay Jay

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Mistake I make a lot.

You were too drunk dude.

When you are too drunk its hard to get the f/close unless she is completely focussed on getting some ****.

If you are going out to score don't get drunk (nor should you smoke weed, dump Es or snort too much blow...). Messes with your game too much unless she is completely on the same trip...

JJ
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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