Tips for clubs there are loads already but you seem to have a top attitude so I will post what works for me.
OK positive outlook, approachable and friendly!
Look the best you can, ppl say don’t over do it but i am not sure how you can over do looking good tbh. I expect what they mean is don’t go in wearing a suit, wear trendy ‘in’ cloths make you look as good as possible.
I wear cloths that suit me my look, normally blue jeans and black, top or black shirt, or i wear a white shirt if i have a tan.
Buy some nice shoes! KEY!
When you go in feel positive vibe from the night enjoy the music just enjoy being there, your attitude matters 10fold in a bar, positive vibing, you look good you feel good and the bar music and drinks are great and the bonus your surrounded by ti*s and as* all around you, better then sitting at the pc anyday, so there is no reason not to have a good vibe.
OK interaction.
Go in, with a friendly attitude.
These things are KEY:
Eye contact, smile, laugh enjoy yourself, treat it like a bit of fun.
Major KEY:
Don’t expect to get sex out of all girls, just have fun and flow.
I don’t use PU stuff maybe if i did i would be better but considering i pull nearly ever time I go out then I am doing something right.
Confidence, i mean this get confidence, you get this from interacting with ppl.
One of the biggest confidence boosters i ever had was reading this one book:
How to win friends and influence people, it will give you an insight into human nature you have never considered. Read it your confidence and outlook will change.
Go in with a positive frame about yourself, don’t fear rejection for one your getting to know ppl your having fun, rejection if you have built up positive vibes it is so easy to ask for closure it just comes.
Certain ppl you will vibe from no matter what candid lines you know, it is just the way it is, certain ppl wont even open up to you.
Expect to meet rude women, expect to meet women who are just not nice ppl. Expect it and when it happens remember it is not about you.
Go in have fun.
Time when i use lines:
Ok i am talking to girls and they open with:
What’s your name:
Where do you live e.t.c
I always, always reply with some funny comment or try to.
My name is roberto margarto, or some other BS, have fun with it.
I come from Sweden ( I have a thick English accent (yes I live in the UK)
, it don’t matter if the girls are fun girls they will love this, you can play with it and so will they.
on the other hand, I open up with introductions if i know the girl lacks a certain bubbly appeal i find very attractive, I like bubbly girls, some are just so serious for me. These types of interactions i do the formal routine but i find the conversation can go stale, it is then when a few beers helps since you forget about any hang ups and normally ask them to dance or some other stuff.
Approach girls on their own, ask them where there mates are, say stuff like "your mates leave you all alone". Build it up.
Expect some girls to be rude to you.
I am a GL guy (I can be ugly too) I dress to suit me and it works it amplifies my look, i have short hair and wear stubble now and again, i have a kinda rough guy look about me and I dress to suit that style, girls always say i am a GL guy, one time they did not!
Key things:
Look good, have a positive attitude, have fun, enjoy yourself, be friendly, be confident, vibe. Learn to like ppl, i mean this clubs are very social, ppl tend to stay in tight sets, but having a genuine like for other ppl helps, i don’t mean freaky stuff but an attitude where you an forgive someone’s fu** ups.
This gives you a better frame when you fail.
Realize no guy truly scores every night from clubs, some great PU ppl out there, i have know some of the best PU ppl i have ever met.
One guy i know has slept with well over 300 girls (i know but its true so bite me), he could not pull every night, does not pull every night but his success is high becasue he does NOT let the rejection failure effect him.
Now if this guy is not an epic PU artists I don’t know who is, most where very hot women.
If you want true success here is a simple model.
Numbers game:
Get all the above in check then open the numbers i guarantee you a girl will like you if you approach enough and open enough, i can guarantee you this 100% proof of this working you wont ever fail meeting girls if you can do this.
100% sounds so easy right? it is never easy even i have major problems with this, but i am getting better alot better. You just have to keep applying yourself little by little until eventually you found yourself in a place that fits your ideal.
Once you have the rest in check play the numbers game, what this means is:
There are a % of girls in bars that are:
Not nice
Not friendly
Have BF
Are married/engaged
Are not looking for a guy, just out with the girls
Are bubbly
Are nice
Want a guy
And believe this or not there are women out there and in bars that actually want what YOU have to offer, believe this because it is true.
So the numbers game, you play the numbers you filter out the girls that you cant get until eventually you talk to one who is so into you, nothing almost nothing you do will mess it up.
TBh i could probably go on all day with this stuff.
