"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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club pu.. or almost :)

rapsta

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how should I do this next time?

there was a hb8-9.. really hot chick.. she sat her asss down next to me in the club while i was drinking beer in the sofa. she had a hot tatoo on the curve.. a hot sexy birthmark on her face.. kinda like eva mendez :) she was half swedish and half african (i dont remember the country).. hot skintone etc etc. (she was more or less kinda like a "badgirl" it seemed to me, after we spoke some, but still she was kinda friendly ;) )
So this is the convo from the beginning:
me: hah, when a good song comes on, you just sit down? whats that? :)
her: i dont like this one
me: oo.. its okay dancing to
her: *smile*
me: where u from?
her: malmö (the third biggest city in sweden, ooh citygirl :p)
me: oh cool.. do u know this girl X from there? (this is a very good girl.. everyone respects her in that town)
she: nah
me: oh ok.. i was just wondering
she: why? is she your gf or something?
me: nah used to be
she: oh ok.. how old are u?
me: im 20
she: oh.. a little kid :)
me: how old are u?
she: im 21
me: oh you're not that older but i see.. don't let the age fool you tho
she: heh..
me: so there is NO way i can get to know you just because im 20?
she: im a cool kind of girl, i dont get to know people from clubs just like that
me: heh aight (then i put out my hand like in a high five position but yet not..)

how should i have done it instead?
 

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Originally posted by rapsta
how should I do this next time?

there was a hb8-9.. really hot chick.. she sat her asss down next to me in the club while i was drinking beer in the sofa. she had a hot tatoo on the curve.. a hot sexy birthmark on her face.. kinda like eva mendez :) she was half swedish and half african (i dont remember the country).. hot skintone etc etc. (she was more or less kinda like a "badgirl" it seemed to me, after we spoke some, but still she was kinda friendly ;) )
So this is the convo from the beginning:
me: hah, when a good song comes on, you just sit down? whats that? :)
her: i dont like this one
me: oo.. its okay dancing to
her: *smile*
me: where u from?
her: malmö (the third biggest city in sweden, ooh citygirl :p)
me: oh cool.. do u know this girl X from there? (this is a very good girl.. everyone respects her in that town)
she: nah
me: oh ok.. i was just wondering
she: why? is she your gf or something?
me: nah used to be
she: oh ok.. how old are u?
me: im 20
she: oh.. a little kid :)
me: how old are u?
she: im 21
me: oh you're not that older but i see.. don't let the age fool you tho
she: heh..
me: so there is NO way i can get to know you just because im 20?
she: im a cool kind of girl, i dont get to know people from clubs just like that
me: heh aight (then i put out my hand like in a high five position but yet not..)

how should i have done it instead?
Dont qualify your age.
When she asks how old you are, say "Old enough".
 

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Originally posted by rapsta
okay, any other things?
Keep approaching :)
 
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