"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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club pu.. or almost :)

rapsta

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how should I do this next time?

there was a hb8-9.. really hot chick.. she sat her asss down next to me in the club while i was drinking beer in the sofa. she had a hot tatoo on the curve.. a hot sexy birthmark on her face.. kinda like eva mendez :) she was half swedish and half african (i dont remember the country).. hot skintone etc etc. (she was more or less kinda like a "badgirl" it seemed to me, after we spoke some, but still she was kinda friendly ;) )
So this is the convo from the beginning:
me: hah, when a good song comes on, you just sit down? whats that? :)
her: i dont like this one
me: oo.. its okay dancing to
her: *smile*
me: where u from?
her: malmö (the third biggest city in sweden, ooh citygirl :p)
me: oh cool.. do u know this girl X from there? (this is a very good girl.. everyone respects her in that town)
she: nah
me: oh ok.. i was just wondering
she: why? is she your gf or something?
me: nah used to be
she: oh ok.. how old are u?
me: im 20
she: oh.. a little kid :)
me: how old are u?
she: im 21
me: oh you're not that older but i see.. don't let the age fool you tho
she: heh..
me: so there is NO way i can get to know you just because im 20?
she: im a cool kind of girl, i dont get to know people from clubs just like that
me: heh aight (then i put out my hand like in a high five position but yet not..)

how should i have done it instead?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Omega

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Originally posted by rapsta
how should I do this next time?

there was a hb8-9.. really hot chick.. she sat her asss down next to me in the club while i was drinking beer in the sofa. she had a hot tatoo on the curve.. a hot sexy birthmark on her face.. kinda like eva mendez :) she was half swedish and half african (i dont remember the country).. hot skintone etc etc. (she was more or less kinda like a "badgirl" it seemed to me, after we spoke some, but still she was kinda friendly ;) )
So this is the convo from the beginning:
me: hah, when a good song comes on, you just sit down? whats that? :)
her: i dont like this one
me: oo.. its okay dancing to
her: *smile*
me: where u from?
her: malmö (the third biggest city in sweden, ooh citygirl :p)
me: oh cool.. do u know this girl X from there? (this is a very good girl.. everyone respects her in that town)
she: nah
me: oh ok.. i was just wondering
she: why? is she your gf or something?
me: nah used to be
she: oh ok.. how old are u?
me: im 20
she: oh.. a little kid :)
me: how old are u?
she: im 21
me: oh you're not that older but i see.. don't let the age fool you tho
she: heh..
me: so there is NO way i can get to know you just because im 20?
she: im a cool kind of girl, i dont get to know people from clubs just like that
me: heh aight (then i put out my hand like in a high five position but yet not..)

how should i have done it instead?
Dont qualify your age.
When she asks how old you are, say "Old enough".
 

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Originally posted by rapsta
okay, any other things?
Keep approaching :)
 
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