"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Club promoter street team
- Thread starter Pandora
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LiveFreeX
Banned
Pay sucks till you get good at what you do. I have a friend that used to line people up at events, a couple calls and he'd have nearly 100 people showing up at an event. DJ's knew him by name... actually come to think of it, I also know a DJ who used to be a major coke dealer. He had a following of tons and tons of people and wherever he went money followed. You've got to be really into Dance music, partying, and know loads of douche bags with tricked out cars. There aren't really any jobs in the want ads, it helps if you know how to DJ, bartend or dance (and are ripped). It's more of a sidejob that anything.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Dont get me wrong its WORK but you can have fun with it. Its a social job. You gotta know how to work the crowds. I banged so many females during that time, was on my AAA game, had a face and a name in the streets and even got slapped by some bish, dissed, almost jumped, shot at(not really but gunshots 15 feet away). dealin with homeless trannys, pimps, thugs, elite cosmo sophisticates, college crowds and sports fans etc. EVERYBODY. Its a dope job and experience. I highly suggest you try it out...but be reayd to go balls to the wall.
Keep in mind its not glamorous, it has its moments as your PART of the glitz but you are pounding pavement in all conditions pandering to people to come to your venue...just be alpha and have class and fun with it. get grimy if you have too..fukk it.
Also thats not the only thing you do, back at the club my manager would have me working the door, watching for minors in the club (so basically partying and dancing with bishes and even drinking, while kicking out any drunk ass under 21 year olds). Chillin in the DJ booth etc. Id do it again but the pay sucks balls.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.