“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Club pickup yesterday

sbgm

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Hello!
Met this interesting girl last night at a club and we started talking, exchanged numbers and eventually kissing (no tounge) everything was well.

Then I got a bit more drunk and my game was not so good. I told her that I would call her today and ask her out for lunch (that's a big no no, I know but the alcohol was doing it) so I added her as friend on FB (she accepted) and called her just now and there were like three tones then the busy-tone, so apparently she pressed the hang up-button and didn't want to talk...

So I need tips on what my next move will be. Should I text her? Should I call her in a couple of days? Also - point out obvious errors I've missed in this experience...
 

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Ouch... The "lunch" error made a big impact I'm afraid and you really shouldn't have called her that soon, your kinda stalking her and as you notice (by hanging up) she now needs some space. So don't text her or you make it worse.

I'd say just give it some time. But that's my opinion!
 

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I'll give it a couple of days, then call her up again and if she answers, tell her that it was nice meeting her and I would like to get to know her better, ask her out on date... Not a lunch date this time, a real dinner date :)

Or should I next her because I fvcked up ?
 

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sbgm said:
I'll give it a couple of days, then call her up again and if she answers, tell her that it was nice meeting her and I would like to get to know her better, ask her out on date... Not a lunch date this time, a real dinner date :)

Or should I next her because I fvcked up ?

I would suggested that when you call, you don't ask her for a real dinner date... In fact, remove the word date of your vocabulary.

Why ? Simply because it's too much stress for you and her. Also, a dinner is expensive and she didn't to anything yet to obtain those kind of favours from you. A date is when you guys know each other and that you are in a LTR (Long-Term Relationship).

So what's the solution ? When you call just say: ''Hey it's (your name) from the club, I had a great time. Listen, I'm going for a (coffee, ice cream, shopping, or whatever fun activity you have going on) wanna join ?''

If she agrees, then you got yourself a girl to hangout with. Kino escalation and you are all set :cool:
 

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No tongue? I got flaked on Twice yesterday. I could not believe the 2nd one failed to show up at the club, so I got majorly pissed, didn't call her, just chalked that one up to never seeing her again. I turned my anger into something way more productive, and I found a petite Latina in the dance floor/bar area, not very good English, but it was dark and we kissed with tongue, she asked me how many chicas I've had, she thought I was a virgin (I'm like wtf? no no sey) and she was rubbing her ass/skirt into my crotch, I ran my hand across her perky breasts. I told her that I've never been with a Latina before, and she said, "Let's go back to my place" and I'm like, "Me gustas...Yo quiero tocarte." So she grabs my hand and we head out. We walked to her small apartment (500 sq ft?), it was right around the corner from the club.

So she puts down her purse, and I'm just horny as fvck looking at those high Latina heels. I'm sitting down and she comes up to me and sits on me, we're kissing, I'm feeling her young hard body through her black skirt. Her face is not that great, like one of them jeeps off of Popeye, but fvck I don't care, I'm about to fvck her hard.

So she undoes my pants, rolls them down inside out off of my feet, and lifts my shirt off and I let her take off hers (no bra) and now she's only clad in black panties. I'm standing on my knees on the bed which signals her to start sucking my c0ck with her juicy and kissable lips (ok kisser, I've never had a Latina kiss me, we made the most of it, she liked kissing me more). So after the c0cksucking (just normal), she lifts off her panties while on her back, I go down near her pvssy (kind of a swoop down, fly-by, to see if I'm going to eat her) and I see bumps on the left side of her vag (these AREN'T razor burns imo), so I come back up and just get on her and kiss her, both of us now fully naked. We switch positions to her on top and she's rubbing my c0ck bb with her pvssy lips (I'm thinking I SHOULD NOT be letting her do this!) At this point, I sense her insecurity (my having passed over eating her, and now flinching to get her bare pvssy off my uncovered c0ck) so I squeeze and suck her breasts and nipples and feel her ribs and sides, her young tight body (no tats, hey +++) so we're kissing and she reaches into her nightstand to get a condom, and I put on the condom because I know best. I don't like that condom so I get up and get one of mine). So I start on her kissing in missionary, she's so petite and shorter than me that I have to stoop down and crane my neck to be able to kiss her while fvcking. So next i flip her over for doggie, My God, that is some tight pvssy. I'm fvcking her harder than I've ever fvcked a woman except for this petite Seattle Amero-Indian girl I met back in late June, feels so great, I can't come yet so I pull out and we switch to spooning with me kissing her ear and neck and just feeling her body like you would a wife in the morning (this is a position I find Most women do not like, because I think, it does not feel as good, maybe because it's 'boring' to them? idk). So we transition to reverse cowgirl from there, and she's getting off on it, but damn she doesn't realize how that's hurting me, we're just not positioned correctly, so I call her name "Laishka, puede dar la vuelta?" Now she smiles (but ugly) and kisses me and start riding me Very hard, and I can't stop from coming - too much friction.

So I didn't get to finish her off in doggie which felt the best, but oh well, I got my rocks off after being stood up twice by prettier girls yesterday. I love petite girls though, and this ONS fit the bill, even if she was almost mannish in the face - at night you can't tell as much. I'll never see her again.
 

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Poonani Maker, looks like you had a great night...

Does anyone have more suggestions?
 

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Poonani Maker said:
No tongue? I got flaked on Twice yesterday. I could not believe the 2nd one failed to show up at the club, so I got majorly pissed, didn't call her, just chalked that one up to never seeing her again. I turned my anger into something way more productive, and I found a petite Latina in the dance floor/bar area, not very good English, but it was dark and we kissed with tongue, she asked me how many chicas I've had, she thought I was a virgin (I'm like wtf? no no sey) and she was rubbing her ass/skirt into my crotch, I ran my hand across her perky breasts. I told her that I've never been with a Latina before, and she said, "Let's go back to my place" and I'm like, "Me gustas...Yo quiero tocarte." So she grabs my hand and we head out. We walked to her small apartment (500 sq ft?), it was right around the corner from the club.

So she puts down her purse, and I'm just horny as fvck looking at those high Latina heels. I'm sitting down and she comes up to me and sits on me, we're kissing, I'm feeling her young hard body through her black skirt. Her face is not that great, like one of them jeeps off of Popeye, but fvck I don't care, I'm about to fvck her hard.

So she undoes my pants, rolls them down inside out off of my feet, and lifts my shirt off and I let her take off hers (no bra) and now she's only clad in black panties. I'm standing on my knees on the bed which signals her to start sucking my c0ck with her juicy and kissable lips (ok kisser, I've never had a Latina kiss me, we made the most of it, she liked kissing me more). So after the c0cksucking (just normal), she lifts off her panties while on her back, I go down near her pvssy (kind of a swoop down, fly-by, to see if I'm going to eat her) and I see bumps on the left side of her vag (these AREN'T razor burns imo), so I come back up and just get on her and kiss her, both of us now fully naked. We switch positions to her on top and she's rubbing my c0ck bb with her pvssy lips (I'm thinking I SHOULD NOT be letting her do this!) At this point, I sense her insecurity (my having passed over eating her, and now flinching to get her bare pvssy off my uncovered c0ck) so I squeeze and suck her breasts and nipples and feel her ribs and sides, her young tight body (no tats, hey +++) so we're kissing and she reaches into her nightstand to get a condom, and I put on the condom because I know best. I don't like that condom so I get up and get one of mine). So I start on her kissing in missionary, she's so petite and shorter than me that I have to stoop down and crane my neck to be able to kiss her while fvcking. So next i flip her over for doggie, My God, that is some tight pvssy. I'm fvcking her harder than I've ever fvcked a woman except for this petite Seattle Amero-Indian girl I met back in late June, feels so great, I can't come yet so I pull out and we switch to spooning with me kissing her ear and neck and just feeling her body like you would a wife in the morning (this is a position I find Most women do not like, because I think, it does not feel as good, maybe because it's 'boring' to them? idk). So we transition to reverse cowgirl from there, and she's getting off on it, but damn she doesn't realize how that's hurting me, we're just not positioned correctly, so I call her name "Laishka, puede dar la vuelta?" Now she smiles (but ugly) and kisses me and start riding me Very hard, and I can't stop from coming - too much friction.

So I didn't get to finish her off in doggie which felt the best, but oh well, I got my rocks off after being stood up twice by prettier girls yesterday. I love petite girls though, and this ONS fit the bill, even if she was almost mannish in the face - at night you can't tell as much. I'll never see her again.

Dude why are you telling this here if I may ask?


Back on topic:

Give it a couple of days (not to long otherwise she will lose interest) and just listen to what badboyjmm suggested (and god please don't say to her if she likes to go on a "date" with you) and go do something with her. Call her up (don't text) and say your going for _______ (fill in activity) and if she wants to join you. When you call her be sure to be confident!



Oh and....
sbgm said:
Or should I next her because I fvcked up ?
Just try it! If you don't you will never find out....
 
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