"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Club "Lines" in winter?

Naughty Ninja

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Just thought of this topic. Anyone from the northeast ever notice in the freezing winter these chicks standing outside on line for a club wearing barely anything let alone a coat? My friend says it's because they're all coked up. Maybe I'm niave but anyone else see that as the explaination besides attention seeking?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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They're drunk and/or don't want to coat check and cabbed over. We do it all the time here in Montreal. I'm sure a tiny sliver of them think of the attention they'll get, but here it's pretty standard to just not bring a coat if you don't have to.
 

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its the coat thing.........coat check costs money, coats get stolen..........
 

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COD said:
its the coat thing.........coat check costs money, coats get stolen..........
ding ding ding. I personally don't ever bring a coat to a club, though usually in the winter I make sure I'm on the vip list, no line, no cover.
 

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lol, cocaine doesn't make you warm... i used to freeze my ass off outside b/c i didn't want to check my coat... or some places dont even check coats so you have to haul a coat around with you in there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think it's about how they think they are perceived. If the have a cute top on and have a nice rack, they always want to show off their assets....even in a blizzard.
 

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1) Coat-checks cost money. 2) There is always a lineup at the coat-check.
 

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I used to bring a jacket with me and it's like having a kid, you always have to watch out for it and carry it with you. Not to mention lots of clubs don't even have coat checks.
 
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