"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Noob_Lee

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Hi,

Can anyone tell me the quickest and easiest method step by step for getting a girl in a club and kissing her etc.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Walk up to girl.

Mime hello, since its too loud to talk

grab hand, go to dance floor

DANCE!

Make out on floor.


Any questions?
 
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Pretty much the above. There's a bunch of escalation procedures but that stuff really bogs down your game. I remember when I read a bunch and went clubbing. I used to be comfortable clubbing but suddenly with a dozen moves to do, it was impossible.

You should be able to seduce a woman without even talking to her.
 
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How do you meen without talking to her?

How would you open etc?

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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a girl on the dance floor wants to dance. she doesn't care what your name is. Go up to her, make eye contact, and dance.

eye contact is good. don't be a creep that comes up behind and grinds on her.
 
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don't say hi first, be dancing already and "happen to" end up near her, then glance at her or start dancing with her or whatever after you've been near eachother's space and made some sort of initial contact.

GOOD: You're already doing your thing, and she seems to be having a good time --> dancing a bit closer, etc

BAD: Walking in a bee-line to her, saying hi awkwardly and THEN starting to dance.

WORSE: Dancing behind her with an awkward pack of low-social skill guys hoping to 'accidentally' brush your crotch against her ass
 
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handle said:
don't say hi first, be dancing already and "happen to" end up near her, then glance at her or start dancing with her or whatever after you've been near eachother's space and made some sort of initial contact.

GOOD: You're already doing your thing, and she seems to be having a good time --> dancing a bit closer, etc

BAD: Walking in a bee-line to her, saying hi awkwardly and THEN starting to dance.

WORSE: Dancing behind her with an awkward pack of low-social skill guys hoping to 'accidentally' brush your crotch against her ass
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I died laughing at this accurate post!

Here's my insight to add on:

BETTER: You're already dancing with a girl and then another pretty girl wants a turn.

EVEN BETTER: You're dancing with multiple girls at once!

BEST: You're doing all of this smoothly and it seems like your natural vibe! Then you have your pick of the women in that area. Strike while the iron's hot!
 
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The method is there is no method. I've gotten chicks from clubs/bars a lot of different ways. One was ready to leave with me and suck my **** on her porch after a 3 minute convo and another made out with me for hours and even though she was alone wouldn't leave with me. It's just aboutnhaving a good time and letting it ride bro. Don't be afraid to go for it, especially in clubs. Being timid will get you nowhere.
 
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