"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Club game rule of thumb!

alpha_ash

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If a girl is into you, she will stay with you from beginning to end of the night.

I used to read about all kinds of club game rules stating how you should be hopping around from girl to girl for social proof and to accumulate as many numbers as possible.

From my extensive clubbing experience, I have noticed that if a girl thinks you are hot enough, or fun enough, she will give you a free pass to everything she has to offer. Over the past 6 months, some things have become quite clear.

This doesn't just apply to drunk girls, in fact, sober girls are more likely to do this for you! Drunk girls are easy, we know that, but the truth is sober girls are easier if your looks are above average! I have gotten to a point where I don't even talk to girls until after they show me what they can do for me on the dance floor. If they impress me enough, I will hand them my phone to put in their number and they usually give themselves a missed call so they have my number. Usually they will have me enter my name, info into their phone as well.

Myth 1: meet a girl, talk, number grab, leave to go to next girl.

This one absolutely is out the door for me. I don't even talk to them until they are grinding on me and doing things that only she and I are doing in the entire club. I had dudes high-fiving me Saturday night as they saw us dancing and getting into it! I didn't have to go find another girl, she was with me the entire night and we just kept going at it. My hands were everywhere, no resistance. One of my friends texted me next morning: "that girl was like putty in your hands."

Truth 1: if she thinks you are hot enough, she will give you everything!

Truth 2: you have no room for shyness. Take it as far as you can on the dance floor to maximize the effect of the after-party!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To briefly summarize this post, being good looking helps with girls. What a shocker...
 

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Awwwww, ringleader, you place too much emphasis on looks, that's cute.

Good looking Is only part of what makes a guy hot, personality, sense of humor and a number of other things play an important role.
 

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Clubs are mostly for ONS not getting numbers. Day game is for number grabs. Clubs are too noisy and crowded to have any type of real conversation. Most of what you do will be physical with dancing, grinding, touching, etc.

If a girl is strongly feeling you, move her to a new location where you can get some action. Getting her number will usually lead to being forgotten (especially if she's drunk).

Girls don't go to clubs to find a husband. They go for fun in all forms. :)
 

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nroug7 said:
Awwwww, ringleader, you place too much emphasis on looks, that's cute.

Good looking Is only part of what makes a guy hot, personality, sense of humor and a number of other things play an important role.
This is what ugly people say to make themselves feel better.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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