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Club game physical approach

Gro0ver

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Sup Sosuave, wondering if anyone with some experience can help me.

When it comes to getting with girls at clubs I favour winning them over with physicality, like dancing near them then when they take notice (I dance good) I engage them in some kind of dancing or a little bit of convo. I find convo difficult in clubs though and I know many agree.

Does anyone here know any tips or tricks to pick up girls on the dance floor without much conversation? Like, something to break the ice that has a high success rate. Because I don't really have a consistent approach. I am quite passive and would like to step my game up :box:

Cheers,
Gro0ver
 

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Who Dares Win

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Success in your case is about choosing the right target and be goodlooking enough to be liked.

So choose a girl which gives good vibes or a couple and just get close to them and smile, dont show sign of fear or doubt otherwise the frame they'll buy wont be the one you are looking for.

I suggest you to avoid group of girls (3+) since its more like a popularity contest for more of them about which one an reject as many "creepy" guys as possible.
Remember that a single guy approaching a group of girls is by default creep untill proven otherwise except for goodlooking ones or ones with high social skills.

The main problem is being accepted and liked, once there just escalate through hand holding, hands on tight and so on, if you manage to have a reciprocated kiss you are game on and you have to be concerned about other factors later on, like the c0ckblocking friend or last minute resistance.

It's a matter of action far less than chemistry.
 

Gunner26

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I have tried quite a few things, as Who Dares said it's all about getting the ones giving off good vibes.

What's worked for me is to continue dancing with the people I'm with while looking straight at em, if they continue to look at you, make your way over and take them by the hand, one little spin and dance. No words neccessary.

Another thing I like to do is while their looking at me, look myself up and down and pull a face similar to confusion then look at them with a quizzical look, normally it gets a smile, if it does then I go over and say hi, and ask them why they kept looking at me. After her explanation, you tell her what you really think she was looking at you for, check her out extraordinarily over the top, take them by the hand and dance. There's basically no talking, you go over and basically tell her you caught her getting an eye-full, and her punishment for being too obvious is a dance.

Finally, I've found a little bow, with a cheeky smile and a wink goes down a treat with some women.

Hope this helps a bit.
Gunner
 

Mike32ct

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Honestly, there is very little Community information on "Dance F l o o R Pic kup G a m e."

Like WDW said, trying to pick up while dancing depends heavily on looks.

I think it's best to meet them off of the dance floor, chat for a bit, then steer the conversation towards the topic of dancing. Ask if she's a good dancer, and invite her onto the floor.

If she's with a girlfriend, you kind of have to invite them both dancing.
 
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