"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Club Game help

Ganondorf

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I need help on some techniques to weed out women

I know from experience that there are 3 types of women who go to clubs

women who are there with the girls

women who just want attention

and women who are actually open to meeting guys

how do you tell the difference between an Attention hore and an open girl?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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IamtheAlphamale

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Alright, from my experience at being at bars what I have learned is it is all a matter of being comfortable. Who cares if you get rejected? Maybe you do? I dunno. What I do is.. I make sure to just keep approaching because then I get experience points towards my level ups. If you didn't get the kiss with this girl.. approach the next one. Its all in the trail and error man.
 

SickAgain

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Well you can group some of those girls. For example a girl with her friends, maybe an attention *****, and still gives out her number...

Don't look too much into it and just talk to them and find out.
 

Da Realist

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The one's who are out on the dance floor wearing the tightest stuff and basically dancing like a stripper without a pole are the AW's. The woman that's dressed nice but is a little more low-key is most likely there to meet a man.
 
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