Club game, golden rule #2

[alpha_ash]

Learning to dance, alone, with confidence is key to attracting girls!

My most successful nights came after I became comfortable with dancing alone. Get on the dance floor, move to the best, and enjoy! The rest will come to you. YES, girls are attracted to a guy who can dance and do it well, with confidence! Nothing shows confidence as a guy having a good time by himself or even with a bro on the dance floor.

I admit that I am good looking and dress well, which has always helped me attract hot girls, but the really successful nights began to appear after I became comfortable with myself on the dance floor.

Girls see me dancing, by myself, stare at me, eyes lock, I don't go over to them. A few seconds of patience and showing her how much fun I am having over here, she leaves her position far away and ends up on my ****. I swear, learning to dance alone on the dance floor has brought me to the next level! I really enjoy the club more, I don't have to drink to do it, and I maximize fun by leading the girl as a sober, confident alpha male!

What more do women want from a guy they meet in a club?

Review of golden rule #2 of club game: learn to dance alone on the dance floor and be able to do it confidently. Success will follow, I guarantee it!

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If a girl is into you, she will stay with you from beginning to end of the night.

I used to read about all kinds of club game rules stating how you should be hopping around from girl to girl for social proof and to accumulate as many numbers as possible.

From my extensive clubbing experience, I have noticed that if a girl thinks you are hot enough, or fun enough, she will give you a free pass to everything she has to offer. Over the past 6 months, some things have become quite clear.

This doesn't just apply to drunk girls, in fact, sober girls are more likely to do this for you! Drunk girls are easy, we know that, but the truth is sober girls are easier if your looks are above average! I have gotten to a point where I don't even talk to girls until after they show me what they can do for me on the dance floor. If they impress me enough, I will hand them my phone to put in their number and they usually give themselves a missed call so they have my number. Usually they will have me enter my name, info into their phone as well.

Myth 1: meet a girl, talk, number grab, leave to go to next girl.

This one absolutely is out the door for me. I don't even talk to them until they are grinding on me and doing things that only she and I are doing in the entire club. I had dudes high-fiving me Saturday night as they saw us dancing and getting into it! I didn't have to go find another girl, she was with me the entire night and we just kept going at it. My hands were everywhere, no resistance. One of my friends texted me next morning: "that girl was like putty in your hands."

Truth 1: if she thinks you are hot enough, she will give you everything!

Truth 2: you have no room for shyness. Take it as far as you can on the dance floor to maximize the effect of the after-party!

 

[zinc4]

both your your rules really are golden....if anything talking to other women will lessen your chances unless she is super insecure..a lot of them are....but point is if she thinks you are hot then it doesn't matter stay with her and she will do anyhting you want...my problem is a get bored very easily staying with one girl and always migrate to other women even if they aren't as hot as the one who is initially really into me....sometimes they still stay after me but other times it backfires in my face....and i shouldn't even have to comment on the dancing part...that is very very important considering that your looks are already attractive to her in the first place...

 

[IronDJ]

I agree with this. Describe how you learned how to dance.

 

[alpha_ash]

I agree with this. Describe how you learned how to dance.

Haha good question. I think that could be a post on its on! I put a lot of effort into it alone as well as with a cousin and a friend. I used to be very shy clumsy, but with practice and attempting to replicate others, I have come far. When I have more time, ill make a post about it, detailing all my efforts from start to finish.

Here's something to start with: what type of music is common in the clubs you normally visit? Depending on that, you proceed with the rest. Ill explain this fully in the next big post.