"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Club game from last Friday night: Success or Failure? You decide!

alpha_ash

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Okay, so I've been having great luck at the club dancing with girls, being approached by cute girls and then sometimes they even buy drinks for me!

My most recent Friday night, I went to a club with a friend. There were a couple of girls who approached me and started dancing with me, but the third one that came up was the one that this story is about.

Now before I share the story, I want to tell you what I do exactly. I NEVER go up to a girl to talk, never EVER in a club! I go in with the mindset that I am going to have fun, dance in the middle, listen to some awesome techno/pop/dance music, and enjoy the lights/atmosphere. I'll let the girl do all the work.

Once a girl starts grinding with me, I am too into the dancing to go past the "what's your name?" I never ask for a number, in fact, before this Friday night, there was only one time I asked for a number and fortunately I got lucky and she gave it to me right away. (Which I never capitalized on later by using it.) Last week, I decided I was going to try to get more numbers if I remembered/had the chance to.

So back to the story: the next morning, this is the text I sent to my best friend.

Text #1 to my best friend:
Dude I gotta tell you about last night. I was out at the club and a really cute girl starts dancing with me. She knew exactly what to do and how to do it, back grind, front grind, gave me time to rest by moving away and dancing right across from me, the right kino, switched it up regularly, was kissing my neck, moved my hand around her body, pulled me close/tight at the right times, etc. and an hour later, I asked her for a number, and she told me she's a lesbian LOL! And then kept dancing with me for another 45 mins before she had to leave. My groin area was so sore from grinding last night and I had a boner the entire time! She must have had a lot of experience and got bored of the **** so she became a VAGetarian!
Text #2 to my best friend:
You could see my boner through my jeans and she could feel it and kept glancing at it occasionally. I was wondering how to hide it hahaha but I was like **** it, this is too much fun!!
So she spent nearly two hours grinding with me, where I left her for a couple mins to get some water midway through our encounter. Afterwards, I could barely walk straight, my balls were sore, I had a huge boner, and I felt pretty awesome for keeping a lesbian with me for so long! Another thing that made it awesome was that we were the most passionate dancers on the floor, a lot of the eyes were on us, INCLUDING other girls! We were both so into it that I barely had a chance to look around at the reactions. She complimented me a couple times on my looks and at the end thanked me for dancing with her.

First off, I want to show off OBVIOUSLY :) Second, the lesson here is that you should go out to have FUN. Don't get caught up in approaching girls, getting numbers, closing, etc. because the girls are there to have fun as well. This advice is obviously not for everyone, but for people who don't really care for sex.

Now you decide: Is this a success report or a failure report? I wasn't looking for sex, I didn't get sex, but is this a fail simply because I didn't get sex or any numbers for that matter (I only asked this one girl for her number)?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nope. You had fun. Therefore success. - Its not all about a lay.
 

alpha_ash

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Thanks. I forgot to mention one thing. After she told me she was a lesbian, I think she may have felt bad for keeping me for so long. So she goes, "if you have to go, that's fine." And I was like, "Nope." I'm not going anywhere hahaha. The most awesome grind from a cute lesbian = <3!
 
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