Club Field Report

[JohnChops]

So I went out to the club last night with two buddies. We went in and got in the mood. I went in with an " I;m going to have fun attitude "

So I go up to this group of 3 girls. 2/3 looked like they were models and I ask one (in a red dress) to dance. She says "yeah". So I see my friends looking bored, so I said to the group, " Hey my friends are to shy to ask you two to dance, why not go up to them and get em. " They said , " Lets go get them".

We all move over to where my friends were and we all start dancing. About 30 minutes later we were still dancing and I isolated this girl from her friends which she was fine with. She kept moving her hair out of the wait of her neck. So I thought to myself " kiss this girl on the neck RIGHT NOW". It took me a little bit to do it but once I did we started making out.

Ended up having a great night. I had her and her friends laughing and made them have a good time. Her friends liked me a lot, which I find that if her friends like you then that will make the girl your with like you more, because you have the validation ( i dont like that word) of her friends. I felt in control of myself, I was just on another level. I finally feel like I applied what I learned here. Took me long enough

Once we decided to leave I said " Let me get your number" and she gave it to me. I texted her to make sure the number wasnt fake (it wasnt). Then I left. Ive been texting her since yesterday.

So all in all not a bad night.

I do have one question though. Should I keep texting this girl? Or should I not text her for a day but then text her the next day. I dont want to end up over texting her, and having to much contact with her. And I want to set up a date for the early week. Any input on this would be nice.

Thanks for reading guys.

-John Chops

 

[PDubb75]

Nice report, and great to see that more of these are popping up.

Sounds like a pretty good pickup. Out of curiosity, did you try to escalate further? Leaving together or anything?

Before you even asked your question I was about to say you should probably not text her anymore. Try not to have convos over text. Save that for when you are with each other. You don't want her to think you are spending all day waiting by your phone for her to respond (which you are obviously doing if you keep sending quick responses). Try to keep texting to a minimum. Go meet up with her instead.

I used to think it would be awkward when I just ended a text convo out of nowhere. It really isn't. In fact, you kinda want her to be disappointed you can't keep talking. Set up the date, text her one to confirm your plans, and keep it at that.

 

[Mr.SomeoneElse]

You go can go with what PDubb said. Which is a solid idea.

What I do is usually whatever feels natural.
I dont try to save conversations with text, if the girl doesnt put effort intot eh conversation I let it die.
But when I do get a girls number, I usually text them occasionally throughout teh week and have really good short convo's, but action packed conversations.
I find this feels like mini-text dates almost, and increases there comfort, make lots of sexual innuendos etc..
Then when she shows interest you can invite her over for a movie and get laid. No dates, NO $

 

[JohnChops]

Nice report, and great to see that more of these are popping up.

Sounds like a pretty good pickup. Out of curiosity, did you try to escalate further? Leaving together or anything?

Before you even asked your question I was about to say you should probably not text her anymore. Try not to have convos over text. Save that for when you are with each other. You don't want her to think you are spending all day waiting by your phone for her to respond (which you are obviously doing if you keep sending quick responses). Try to keep texting to a minimum. Go meet up with her instead.

I used to think it would be awkward when I just ended a text convo out of nowhere. It really isn't. In fact, you kinda want her to be disappointed you can't keep talking. Set up the date, text her one to confirm your plans, and keep it at that.

thanks. And yeah nah I didnt bother. I wanted to set up a later date. Ahh yeah your right about the texting that makes sense. Plus if she double texts that means she is really interested in talking to me