This is somewhat of an extension on my other thread where I ranted about clubs... I went back to the same club this week with new knowledge at hand thanks to this site and I'd like to post my experience... hopefully I'll learn something and you guys may be able to pick a few things up. BTW, I should also say that my goal of going to a club is NOT to get into any kind of relationship. It's just to have fun, enchance my social skills and see how many girls I can chat with. On with the story...
As soon as I got in I recognized a few people so I went up and said hi right away. One of the girls I know had a friend who said I was "ridiculously cute", so that was a great confidence booster this early in the night. I danced for a while and once girl approached and said she wanted to see me smile... so I did and told her she had a nice smile. After a while of dancing I went and sat on the patio with a few people.
I was sitting there talking when a pack of matches got thrown at me. I looked over and a blonde HB 8 at the other end of the table was the one who threw them at me. It seemed like she wanted me to bring them over to her, so instead I just threw them back which seemed to piss her off. After some long EC I went back to my conversation with a guy who thought I should have gone over. I told him to be patient and watch...
Sure enough, a few minutes later, she throws another pack at me. This time I stare are her and start lighting the matches. She doesn't look happy and signals for me to come over. I shake my head and indicate that if she wants them she has to come get them. She persisted, but I just shook my head, put the matches down next to me and went back to my convo. Sure enough, she comes over and gets them. She makes sure to tell me that I must be the dumbest guy in the world for not bringing them to her.
I would assume she's done this before and EVERY guy brings them back to her. She talks to one of her bouncer friends and jokingly tries to get me kicked out because I wouldn't come talk with her. She then proceeds to tell her guy friends what a jerk I am.
Anyway, we eventually end up sitting next to each other and had a short convo that went something like:
Gary: "You should buy a lighter"
HB8: "Don't even bother, you blew your chance"
Gary: "I think you're mistaken... you blew YOUR chance when you threw the matches at me"
HB8: "No, you're the one who's wrong"
Gary: "What's your name by the way?"
HB8: "I'm not telling"
Gary: "Ok, I'm just going to start calling you Lisa"
After she stopped laughing things went well... I even got her real name. About an hour later she ended up going to get something to eat with one of her friends and I didn't bother asking her number, but I'm confident I'll see her again... Looking back I should have been more agressive and got her to dance with me, but I can't change that now.
Oh, and somewhere in there some other girl asked for my number. *shrug*
That's it for this week.
As soon as I got in I recognized a few people so I went up and said hi right away. One of the girls I know had a friend who said I was "ridiculously cute", so that was a great confidence booster this early in the night. I danced for a while and once girl approached and said she wanted to see me smile... so I did and told her she had a nice smile. After a while of dancing I went and sat on the patio with a few people.
I was sitting there talking when a pack of matches got thrown at me. I looked over and a blonde HB 8 at the other end of the table was the one who threw them at me. It seemed like she wanted me to bring them over to her, so instead I just threw them back which seemed to piss her off. After some long EC I went back to my conversation with a guy who thought I should have gone over. I told him to be patient and watch...
Sure enough, a few minutes later, she throws another pack at me. This time I stare are her and start lighting the matches. She doesn't look happy and signals for me to come over. I shake my head and indicate that if she wants them she has to come get them. She persisted, but I just shook my head, put the matches down next to me and went back to my convo. Sure enough, she comes over and gets them. She makes sure to tell me that I must be the dumbest guy in the world for not bringing them to her.
I would assume she's done this before and EVERY guy brings them back to her. She talks to one of her bouncer friends and jokingly tries to get me kicked out because I wouldn't come talk with her. She then proceeds to tell her guy friends what a jerk I am. Anyway, we eventually end up sitting next to each other and had a short convo that went something like:
Gary: "You should buy a lighter"
HB8: "Don't even bother, you blew your chance"
Gary: "I think you're mistaken... you blew YOUR chance when you threw the matches at me"
HB8: "No, you're the one who's wrong"
Gary: "What's your name by the way?"
HB8: "I'm not telling"
Gary: "Ok, I'm just going to start calling you Lisa"
After she stopped laughing things went well... I even got her real name. About an hour later she ended up going to get something to eat with one of her friends and I didn't bother asking her number, but I'm confident I'll see her again... Looking back I should have been more agressive and got her to dance with me, but I can't change that now.
Oh, and somewhere in there some other girl asked for my number. *shrug*
That's it for this week.
