Club/Dancing approaches

[Huffman]

Hey guys,

yesterday I went out clubbing and realized how much of an AFC I still am
Club was ok, music was ok, and there were plenty of girls.
I look good, dress well and am quite rythmic too, so I thought I should have an easy time getting some hot grinds.

Failed by far.
I realized that I'm not that good at dancing approaches (other game is fine) yet. Though I thought I have the confident, sexual look, I would not be able to get eye contact, as simply creeping up from behind doesn't do the trick.

Also, most girls were dancing in groups, constantly touching each other. How would any sane man (apart from John Travolta) break into that?
No chance for talking either, way too loud.

I want to hear YOUR approaches, things that work for you quite often.
How do YOU do it?

 

[cyp6]

move through the crowed and start grinding.. make you grab there hips they will either look at there friends or turn around... this is the most important part to stay confident.. and groups are far more easier than pairs.... you can go from one girl to the next in the same group.

 

[DJVladdy]

There are really no techniques: what counts the most is the feeling you are having inside you stomach

I'm serious, thats the most important thing. You probably know what I'm talking about. If you have that warm feeling inside you thats whispering to you: "you know your the sh!t, you are a beast that can take whatever girl you want". It a mood you have to get into, its not sometihng you can fake. Females FEEL it, SOMEHOW. If you have that feeling girls will be very responsive to almost anything you do, and to almost any approach of yours, evn creeping up from behind, even this will not creep them out, they'll just get horny for you.

 

[DJVladdy]

Disclaimer: if you're in Europe, maybe my post won't help you. But in Massachusetts, the low-class - those that cost between 5 - 20$, maybe even free if the bouncer is nice to you lol - those $hitty ones that play 50 cent - these are NOT "clubs" - they are mating ground for humans

 

[DJVladdy]

discuss this, instead of discussing "sue left me! why o why?"

 

[LostAndConfused]

discuss this, instead of discussing "sue left me! why o why?"

yeah, cosign lol.

Huffman did you bother to approach at all?

And when girls are dancing in groups...its hard. Some will allow a dominant, confident male to just bust right in and start grinding up on them.........others will attack you, physically and verbally, and create a huge "scene" that gets everyones attention in the whole place, and you can say GOODBYE to dancing with any other girl the whole night at that party/club.

I had a friend at a party who told me, "Hey Lost, man, I got kahunas tonight, I'm gonna step right in that circle of girls dancing together and grind on them all." I thought it would work, he had alot of swag. But when he got in, one of them pushed him out, another was like "who are you?" and it got so loud that everyone at the party saw, and girls pick up on other girls rejecting a guy, so eventually you become the "creepy guy" when they see you get rejected

 

[Huffman]

I'll admit I was a little hesitant that night, but really not downright wussy.
Would you care to elaborate "approaching"? Seeing as you cannot hear a word and simply grabbing a girl from behind comes very creepy to those german uptight *****es

All I need is a little kick-start into this. I'll be able to walk from there.

Watching the other guys in the club, I think many people have that problem. I invite all of you to share with us your experiences!

 

[mutambo]

"Accidentily" bump in.. Make eye contact and judge from there on.